Haven a bad day today ?????

Question

today is my late husbands birthday and ive been threw so much grief i dont know how much more i can take its beeen 8 months now since he has been gone and its so hard or me to move on xoxoxoxo jewels

Answer 1

I am Sorry I hope You feel better...Try to get out of the house and do something fun in remembering him that might help...Good luck sweetie I hope you feel better!

Answer 2

I'm really sorry for your loss.  Thanks for posting this though, and sharing your feelings with us.  That's okay that it's been 8 months.  You let yourself grieve and don't give yourself any limit on how long it should take or how you should do it.  You have been through so much it sounds like, and you need to give yourself permission to feel.  And remember, this is not about moving on or getting over it.  It's about getting through it.  You will get through it.  

Thinking Of You   xoxoxo  

Answer 3

I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a bad day. That must be tough. But you're right to remember him on his birthday. I'd be worried if you weren't upset on this important day; your reaction is totally normal! Take the time to cry, but also to smile about the fun things you did with your DH.

"Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion".

- Dolly Parton in 'Steel Magnolias'

Good luck as you slowly heal from this pain, sweetie. Sending you lots of 'virtual hugs' xoxoxox