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Having A BABY ADVICE PLEASE?

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My Girl friend and i are having a baby?

2 months ago My Girl Friend had s*x and we are going to have a baby. We are both 14 years old

Her parents are not going to be happy. They might even kick her out.

I have asked this but i want more advice

What is the best way to tell her Parents?

My Parents wont be happy but they will help any way they can.

what will be the best way to tell my mom and dad?

we both want to keep the baby

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  1. INSTEAD of asking your parents to adopt your baby maybe you should look into having your parents take temporary legal custody until you adn your gf are fully able to be mommy and daddy and since they would be willing to help in any way ask if they can let you guys do as much as possible... I'm sorry if I was your mother I would not fully adopt your child.. i would be legal guardian for a while but i would make sure that you still fufilled your duties as aparent meaning you'd have a job and limited social life(not completely but somewhat)


  2. Sit down with both sets of parents and tell them both at the same time. If all else fails your gf can move in to you house with your parents approval, if her parents are gonna be that mad. Your parents do not need to adopt the baby, if you both want it. If you do not give the baby up for adoption.  

  3. I think the best way is to tell them is to get both your parents together. Your house would be best because from you description of her parents they would kick you out before you even get a chance to say much. Sit them down (it would be best if they had snacks and drinks first to relax them a little) and just tell them that she is pregnant.

    The two of you are really young but you sound like you are trying to do the responsible thing. I wish the two of you and your families luck.

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