Having Problem getting erection only 20 yrs old, need advice?

Question

I am only 20 yrs old and I can get erections fine when i am not under any pressure to have s*x. But as soon as something comes up or my gf gives me some signals I cannot get one if my life depended on it. I am pretty sure that it is all in my head, but idk what to do about it. What are some things that I can do about this?

Answer 1

you are feeling guilty for some personal issue--getting trapped, having a child, other feelings that create a rejection to have s*x which means your heart is not into it; its a mind game so  once you feel that you are protected from a pg situation you will act as before;  Remember that there are reprecussions to our actions so rethink before you act out.  

Answer 2

You could possibly be non-attracted to her or it could be in your mind.

Answer 3

The best thing to do about this is to relax and clear your head of anything that will cause you to become nervous, thus resulting in lack of ability to get an erection. Just kiss your girlfriend and don't decide when to have s*x. Just ease into it so you don't really have time to think about anything that can cause you to worry. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

If you are into Pornography, that could be your problem.  Look up Pure Warriors.org, it could help you.  Stop having s*x with your gf, save yourself for the woman that will be your wife.

Answer 5

Yes it is all in your head, u r young and shouldnt be having any erection problems.

Alot of things come into play when  u have this kind of problem.

Stress, worry, thinking too much on issues or having too much on your mind could kill your erection.

If you worry too much about pleasing her and dont have enough confidence in yourself could also damage ur erection.

I would suggest:

-talk about it with ur girlfriend, tell her how u feel because she defenetly knows whats going on, women are not that stupid in bed.

-Im assuming that it is stress, worry or some sort of thing like this, so try to get ur girl to have some patience

-Remember that u must enjoy s*x, not be overwhelmed by the thought of pleasing. U must have FUN.....no matter how bad it goes

-Try getting ur mind off things, maybe before doin stuff with her

-Try doing some exercise everyday, try to eat healthy....just do stuff that will make ur body feel better

-Stay away from p**n and jerking off all the time(in case u do)

Give it a try dude

You should be ok.......but dont be taking no pills or viagra.....dat s.ht is bad

Answer 6

Try to bang a dude.

Answer 7

take viagra