Having a hard time picking what should I do?

Question

I'm 14 & I been my moms only child until now. My parents never been married to each others they just went out together back in high school. My mom just got married for the first time last month & she is now 6 weeks pregnant & I knew she was planning on having a baby with my step dad & I told her I didn't want anymore half brothers and sisters I already have 5 half sisters and a brother from my dad & 2 step sisters & 2 step brothers from my step mom I'm with my mom for 1 week then with my dad for 1 week I'm staying with at my grandpas cause I'm not happy with my mom it seems she didn't listen to me but my dad says she could of already been pregnant before I told her how I feel. My grandma always said that I should talk to people about my problems & that everyone should have another chance but talking to my mom and telling her how I feel isn't gonna change that she is pregnant & people has told me do I want my mom to be happy & shes thinks with her having this baby I'm gonna see how hard it is with a baby since there are girls my age are having s*x & getting pregnant I already got mad at her for that cause I'm not like girls my age so in away I want to give my mom another chance & in away I don't. Like I'm ok with my step dad just not happy with having another half sister or brother since my dad had 6 more kids after me.

Answer 1

If your mom wants to have a kid, LET HER. Its her choice. You may be her daughter, but maybe she feels that she wants another kid. I know it will hurt knowing that she didn't listen to you. But maybe you should try to be more understanding,.

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Answer 2

You shouldn't try to keep your mom from having another baby because you are upset that your DAD has so many kids.  That has nothing to do with your mom....thats all your dad's doing.  It sounds to me like maybe you just really like being the "only child" at your moms, but that is really selfish.  It will be a big adjustment, sure, but why not focus on the positives of the situation rather than the negatives?