Having a problem with my boyfriends son

Question

I am over 40 and big busted - my boyfriends son is 13. He keeps trying to touch my b*****s, comes up behind me and puts his arms around my neck then lets his arms fall. He keeps wanting to wrestle with me too and while we are playing he seems to touch my b*****s. I haven't said anything to my boyfriend yet and don't know what to do.

Answer 1

Well 13 yr old boys are eager to explore.  You need to know that this is a stage but you do need to sit down and tell this to your boyfriend.  He may be able to get through to his son about unappropriate behavior.  He will listen to his father better than you.

Answer 2

Lucky 13 yr old...

You need to tell him that his son is being very inappropriate and that he needs to deal with it. The more you let it go on the more the 13yr old thinks he's doing nothing wrong.  

Answer 3

well when you guys are together and you feel him do it again grab his wrist and tell him to cut that shizzt out, or you would break his hand.... that might sound mean but if you let him get away with it he is going to keep doing it. plus he is too old to be doing stuff like that

Answer 4

at his age his hormone are raging and you are a close object of his attention.

Do him like you would do any one who felt your brest without you approval

Answer 5

He's a curious 13 year old hormonal boy.  You need to talk to your boyfriend.  Let him know some strange behaviors have been exhibited towards you by his son and you are concerned it will soon lead to something else.  Explain he has been wrapping his arms around you in a sexual manner and has tried to touch your b*****s repeatedly.  Let him know that this makes you feel uncomfortable and although you don't want to not hug his son, or berate him if he is simply trying to show you affection (not knowing he may be groping you), you do not want to be misunderstood or display any signs that make his son feel like this is accepted.  

Let your boyfriend know exactly how you feel.  He needs to understand how uncomfortable you are so he can rectify the situation.  This is his issue to fix.  From now on, when his son grabs you from behind, remove his arms from your body and say, 'If you want a hug I would prefer it if you would hug me from the front'.  This way you have control over your personal space and his groping.  Good luck!

  

Answer 6

Well he's too old to behave this way and not be penalized for it. He should know that touching your b*****s is inappropriate. I would tell his dad right away! good luck....

Answer 7

Let him know, this will not go on, and explain it to him why it is wrong, as you are are his fathers girlfriend and almost like a mother to him, and he wouldn't do this to her if she was there.  Tell him calmly, as this is an age where boys are curious about female forms, and he may feel totally embarraseed if you two have a good relationship otherwise.  Tell him it is somthing he should do when he is older and with HIS girlfriend as you are already taken and too old for him.  Tell him lightly in a joking manner.    

Answer 8

Its true that he's hormonal at that age, but you need to tell both him and your bf that he needs to keep his hands off! Your boyfriend (hopefully) will not take offense. Men are territorial and sometimes misunderstanding so it could be difficult to tell your bf.