Having more kids, HELP.

Question

I have four kids already, and they are a hand full. There names are Alexis, Kaylene, Sarah, and Jonathan. They never listen and don't respect me or my husband. They kick they scream they hit eachother. And with twins on the way, I don't know if I can take. My two baby girls Mali and Kali are yet to come, in about a month or less, and with the daipers, and the feeding, and the crying, including a 7 year old boy, a three year old girl, a 2 year old girl, and a five year old year, I just might crack. All our babysitters went under pressure, and nevercame back. And my sister had a nervouse breakdown. Any tips help, Ill settle for anything as long as it makes my life better.

Answer 1

I'll tell you what to do... stop making sh*t up... according to your last few questions you might be a L*****n who just broke up with your boyfriend... and is it Eric or Miles???

Most of us here are parents who are interested in really helping each other and getting advice.. we don't need to waste our time on bogus questions

Answer 2

What were you thinking? birth control!!!! you have alot to deal with  and there isn't much that is going to work at this point . if your kids aren't listening then you aren't doing things right. Maybe a parenting class could help, organizing and scheduling will make  a big improvement not letting them just run around they need structure and discipline ( yelling and not following through).  watch the Nanny on TV it may give you some pointers she is very good at what she does.Playing out side will burn off energy and they will sleep good at night and they look forward to the daily things that a good family does.

Answer 3

okay so now you have a husband when 30 minutes ago you were worried about what to do about your boyfriend? Again obviously another lonely teen girl looking for some attention... seriously girls get a life! What kind of thrill do you get out of posting your pregnant or that you have a zillion kids?

Answer 4

If someone had that many kids, theyd be on here giving everyone else advice, not complaining!  

Answer 5

Yeah try discipline and be CONSITENT. If that don't work call Supernanny.  

Answer 6

well i don't know what to tell you except you have to get some order in your home before the babies comes.i raise 14 childrens,and if there was not some order i would have when crazy.but look find some for your children to do.set them a time limited.like when they take naps,or play with their toys,set up a schudle for them and stick with it,

because when the babies come you will need lots of rest.

when i was raising my children,i had a time for everything they did ,.

what time should the takes naps.

and what time they would play with their toys,there baths,and their bed time..

when you do this, it will set a time for you to rest as well and for the new babies.

and get perpared for those babies before they come,set a space you you to attent to them.and try to get them to nap at the same time..

also get one of your friend to watch them some time for an hour or two.this will help you to get more time to your self and always plan head.if you can ,,my time was at night,i plan their meals, set their lothes out what they would wear the day before..

look take a note book andstart them a schulde..on waht each day wll be and what time they are to have their day and then you will not your time for youtself.

start rewarding your children with something.for good behaver,used stars ..they get so many stars what they will get ..if done well...take thing from them in order to get their attentions..and when they are good, reward them after a week ,,like mickey D's..what ever they like.if you do this, you will get some control,,remember bed time ..set your time for this as well...i wish you luck..and i will pray for you.

Answer 7

Get your tubes tied!