Having relationship trouble what should i do.?

Question

i just got out of a bad relationship and i have a one month old son and i just started dating this guy on friday and i need to know what to do ive fallen for him really fast and im afraid to get hurt again. should i pull back the reigns and take it slow or should i let it take its course.

Answer 1

You have a one month old son.....you need to put him  in the forefront of your life.  You have made the child and have this precious baby.  I would say your life should be centered in taking care of this child.  You have made your decision with your baby.  Take care your baby.  Forget your hormones.    That was your choice... All the best.

Answer 2

In your question I feel more of a need for love than a real love feeling.  Analyze yourself.  Dating is intended to gather information about the other person and to get to know them. Besides don't just think about you, but also about what is best for your son.  Work on improving yourself, take some self esteem classes, this will help you attract a better person into your life.  At this moment it will benefit you more to enjoy yourself and your son.  At his age he needs your full attention, remember we are dealing with highly evolved beings( the children now-days) Take a child psychology class, it will help you guide your child in better direction.  This will keep you occupied, and you will relax about relationships, which will allow for the right person to come along.

Answer 3

do not rush into things too quickly just take your time and make sure to tell your bf u just got out of a bad relationship.