Having s*x.........?

Question

one of my friends is dating a guy who is 17 and shes 15. They are ready for s*x, but she is afraid of what he will think of her because its her first time, and he's done it already. She is nervous about bleeding a lot.

what do i tell her?

Answer 1

its all good she wont bleed and he'll like her more afterwords i would tell her to go for it

Answer 2

tell her to do it with a guy her own age

Answer 3

If she has all these anxietys maybe it isnt right for her she doesnt feel comfortable with the person!

maybe she should reconsider doin it with him!

it should feel special and if its done right it shouldnt hurt much  

Answer 4

if he really cares about her alot. he would think about taking her virginity. but if he knows if shes a virgin, he would know what hes going to face. and bleeding is just natural. u cant control your bleeding. and whos good at tat their 1st time. he'll lead it basically. so she just needs to follow along. shes got nothing to worry

Answer 5

Just say no.

You are way too young.

Wait until you are married.

Answer 6

She is quite young -- make sure she realizes the responsibilities & possible consequences of s*x : babies. Ask if she's on a birth control pill. Condoms can break. Is she prepared if she has a baby? What are her thoughts on abortion? s*x is a BIG deal, no matter what media, tv, or internet say. Its the most intimate thing two people can share. How long have she & this guy been together? Has he been tested for stds? There are so many questions she needs to ask/answer herself beforehand. I hope your friend knows what she's getting into. Because she probably does not.  

Answer 7

s*x causes a lot of stress in relationships....all my friends that have had s*x broke up with their boyfriends in that week...if shes really ready encourage her and just tell her to follow his movements.