Having trouble getting motvated socially...

Question

I spend my entire work day talking with people on the phone and in my office. I do not have any social anxiety and i meet new people on a daily basis but i can't seem to find the motivation to go out and meet new people in a relaxed social setting. I have been single for over a year or so now and i have been enjoying it but i am starting to miss being in a relationship. Just after dealing with the daily stress i don't really feel like talking anymore and i usually end up at home after work. Any suggestions to get me out of my slump?

Answer 1

Pick a day of the week to go out.  Tell yourself you only have to go out this one day, and can relax at home in the evenings the other 6.

Answer 2

start from home! -- water the plants outside, then say hi with a sincere smile to your neighbor.

after office -- invite a friend or an officemate to a bar then chill!

if friends are busy -- go out alone, but dont forget to bump into someone you think is interesting.

Answer 3

Go out whenever your friends or coworkers go out.

Stop finding excuses and just make yourself go with them.

Answer 4

Go to a bar and approach someone.

Answer 5

well if u dont wanna go out and socialise then u dont have to,

i find talking to people on the internet a great social learning experience

u can practise trying to have convos with people on the internet