He's in every single dream!!?

Question

whenever i have a dream my ex boyfriend is always in it!!! this has been going on ever since we started going out/broke up..we started going out in december then we broke up in march and went out again in may for only 2 weeks. so thats the background info..but i know im completely over him bc i never think of him anymore. and i even decided that i dont want to be his friend anymore..for so many reasons. but most of all because he never cared. and also because i just dont feel the same about him. so yea i lost all my feelings for him..completely. so what does it mean that im dreaming about him all the time?? and they r weird dreams too..i had one dream where he was playing catch with his new best friend and there was a huge crater then he fell in it bc he tried ti get the ball. nd wen i looked down he was covered in blood. i also had a dream where i was in a dark classroom and i was drawing a candle. then all of a sudden i hear a loud scratching sound and i look to my right and hes drawing a candle too. nd he was coloring it really loudly. so the candle turned out to be black. while mine was gray. and a few of my old friends had candles too..but they were all gray. yea i know i have weird dreams..but what does this all mean? why do i dream about him all the time?? its getting very annoying...

Answer 1

well, i think that since you stopped being friends with him completely, its sort of like a form of revenge for him not caring about you. this dream could mean that your ex has problems and he is in need of a friend but since you deserted him, ihe could get hurt(crater), and also resort to doing bad/evil things( black candle represents evil).

maybe you should try to find him help?

Answer 2

doesn't sound to me like you are over him and don't feel the same about him anymore. i think that you need to sit down somewhere quiet and peaceful and do some soul searching. having him in your dreams every night is normal for some one who has broken up with someone. you need to re-evaluate why the two of you broke up in the first place. you don't say how old you are and if he was your first boyfriend. it sounds like you both are fairly young and the first for both of you. from experience i found out that once you broken up with someone that it is best to break all ties with them and not even remain friends. it's hard to do and i know this but it is even harder to try to remain friends. again i am going to say it take a long hard look at the reason(s) as to why the two of oyou broke up and see if you still want any kind of relationship with him. if you do then that is why he is in your dreams every night. if not then you need to come to terms with it and tell yourself that it is over for good and he is out of your life because you want it that way and eventually he will be out of your life and out of your dreams.

Answer 3

first I want to say to you that you did the right thing for yourself for parting from this boyfriend.

I feel for him, and hope he gets the help in life he needs, but you can not save him! so don't. or your fate will be tied to his and you may regret it.

when we fall in love sometimes we give  ourselves over to that person a piece that is a part of our soul we do this as a grand gesture and commitment to show just how much we can love.

or sometimes so we can feel "anchored in"so we "own" this person and feel more in control.

either way you need to take back from him what you gave.

lie down, close your eyes.

take some cleansing breaths

feel yourself begin to relax, feel the weight of your body on the bed.

now feel your heart space get a good idea what it feels like, this is uniquely your own! now look at it, what color is it? what shape?

know it's unique signature.

breathe, inhale in then out, feel the love that you are!

this is you! this is what you have to offer to those you love but remember it is yours to share, you do not have to give this away to be loved ok?

now, envision that you are surrounded in pure white light this comes only from God if you are religious. make this very strong spend time here, making this feel real! bright white, warm, soothing white light! you are totally encased in it, stay in this white light.

now really connect with your own unique signature, your heart and say or think or feel "I call back to me that which is mine"

envision a small part of white light coming back to you, look at it, feel it and know it is the part you once gave away.

now, it can only come back to you if it is cleansed first.

so envision pure white light coming down and encasing this part and seeing it begin to swirl,both energies combining  and expanding and burst like a supernova!

a bright white burst blinding white and intense and then you see the part you recognize it but now it is clean only yours, pure and unique

only now can you allow it to drift down into the white light you encased yourself with, watch, allow this to enter your heart space allow it to reintegrate with the rest your heart energy filling you up with pure healing energy.

know that you are now home, whole and complete and in your body.

breathe in gratitude,love and a peaceful self.

and remember your love is what you are, you are meant to share it, but you do not have to give it away.

blessings to you, you have a beautiful soul.