He asks about me and never tells me what he's doing or how he is ?

Question

he's very shyy, and whenever we IM he replies really quick. He asks about me and stuff but when i ask about what he's doing and stuff he never replies. Why?

Answer 1

He could be a married man. I have a friend who had a similar experience. The man she chatted with is always dodgy about his whereabouts and it took her two years to find out he's in fact a middle aged man with two kids and he's been using his son's photo to lure my friend!

Answer 2

Cause  he  doesn't  have  that  much  of  a  life.  He  doesn't  have  anything  to  talk  about  with  you  in  regards  to  himself.  No  news.  Nothing  going  on  in  his  life.  No  major  interests.  Maybe  that's  the  way  he  wants  it  tho,  who  knows?    

Answer 3

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Answer 4

May be he is a quiet person.

Answer 5

Well if he's anything like my boyfriend...

I usually write to him.  He responds so that I know he's there.  He'll ask me a ton of questions right away that require long elaborate answers.  I respond for a good while and then wait for a response before I realize that he hasn't reacted to anything I've said for the past 30 minutes.  I ask what's up... I get nothing. =/  Just when I'm about to sign off, I get a "sorry, I was playing a game that filled up the entire screen... what's up?"  That's basically how it goes.  Maybe your guy is different.  I hope so, lol.

Answer 6

Most people are probably going to say he's looking up p**n, but I bet he's a nerd and he's doing something like playing a video game or something nerdy that he doesn't want to tell you about because you will think he's a nerd.

Also, it doesn't matter if he don't look like a nerd, I don't look like a nerd and I play World of Warcraft.

Answer 7

He may just not be that open to you. Try to hangout with him and talk.

Answer 8

ask him why he never seems to be doing anything when you IM him.that should do it.

Answer 9

He doesn't want to tell you.

Answer 10

maybe cause he's not really doing anything at all, and quiet often. So if u ask him he'd always reply "nothing".

Ask him to come around and hang with u.

Answer 11

ummmmmm, mabey he dosent know how to talk to girls, and i know when i was younger i researched on how to talk to girls (how inexperienced i was) and alot of sites told me to just ask the girl questions because she talks forever, mabey hes trying that?