He broke up with me and im breaking down!?

Question

Me and Andrew were best friends since 6th grade, and in 8th grade we started going out. Then close to the end of the school year (May), we got in a really big fight cause he thought I was being a ***** to this girl, and he started saying about how he hated me, and could care less if I was dead or alive, and obviously ended it with me.

Then, he completely ignored me (pretending I wasn't even there) and would flirt with my best friends in front of me.

About a month later (June), we had to choose our classes for the next year. We talked about it before, and he wanted to take Spanish, but I wanted to take French. He said he would take French with me, but that was then.

Now that school started, it turns out he also chose French. Also, whenever I do/say something around him, he makes a remark, and sometimes I can feel that he's looking at me.

I tried to get over him all summer, but I can't. I feel incomplete without him.. I always feel lonely, even when I'm talking to a bunch of people. I have no clue if he knows that or not, but I'm pretty sure he hates me a lot.

How did he get over me so fast!? And please help me pull myself back together.

Answer 1

Go out with me. Lol, jk.

First, you should talk to him.

Answer 2

different people heal from broken relationships at different rates.

he may also be putting on a brave face.

keep going.. time will heal the wounds...  

Answer 3

hes not even over you hes pretending so you will feel even badder.

Answer 4

well your young you don't need to  be "completed" he might not be over you it seems like he is trying his hardest to make you think that, when high school starts there are so many girls for him and guy's for you so don't worry.

Answer 5

he didn't , its just a front  

Answer 6

You feel incomplete without him right? Did you even try to talk to him? Honestly, he hasn't gotten over you yet. It shows because he still hangs out with your friends and even got to the same class as you. He still wants to see you. He just can't tell you because he's a guy and it would hurt his pride. You know, that kind of stuff. So if i were you, if you want to make everything work out again. You could atleast try to talk to him (in private if you prefer) and tell him how you really feel (and keep your fingers crossed).

Good luck and God bless.

Answer 7

Maybe he saw something in you he didnt like. (the way you were treating some other girl). If you did admit it. If you can make it right with the girl you were mean to. This may be very difficult to appologize especially if its someone you dislike but trust me it will be affective. Andrew seems like he is still interested, almost like hes testing you without even realizing it. You can make or break the relationship. If you are snooty and uptight always giving dirty looks I doubt he is going to want to be with you but focus on being sweet even when people are mean to you (its not going to be easy). Be sensitive and caring. Admit where you were wrong, make it right, and tell Andrew how you still feel.  

Answer 8

i know how that feels hun and im sorry to hear that.

What i did is when you see him no matter how much it hurts you can either try to get over him or be friends but if  a guy did that to me ( my ex did something like that to me but no exactly that) i would wanna get over him.. soo...... what i do is when you see him somewhere if he says something cocky or stupid just laugh along with it if he sees that i hurts you and hes trying to get revenge on you for some g*y reasonn over a girl i would laugh along cuz if he thinks its not working than he will stop. You have to be indistructible. b-cause if he sees every time hes trying to hurt you its not working he will eventually stop..

Hang in there. just pretend you dont care. its hard to do i wont lie to you, but you gotta hang in there kidd.:)  

Answer 9

Most times when a guy gets over you really fast, he really did not care for you in the beginning.  Just think of it as a learning experience and try getting to know other guys.  Your very young, and have a long great life ahead of you, enjoy yourself.  He is not worth anymore of your time, thoughts, and/or energy.

Answer 10

i dnt think u should get together again u must leave him and show him that u are not interested that u have many other better things 2 do

Answer 11

ok the guy must be a little confused, because he shouldnt break things off  like that. i  think he rele leks you still, and is not sure wether to try it with you again. he may not b positive you still like him the way he likes you. he may not be over you just yet. i think you need to TALK to him and see what his problem is. but dont try to rush back to  him  if he asks you out again. it makes you seem alittle desperate.Best of luck!

Answer 12

A child with a new toy isn't hard to figure out.

Answer 13

It sounds like he's got some kind of hang up on you as well. But it seems unhealthy from both sides. You seem co-dependent on him, you need him no matter how badly he treats you. I don't know what his problem is, but it's just that HIS PROBLEM, move on. It's tons easier said than done, but just survive. It sounds like knows he can manipulate you and have a personal doormat. It sucks he took French, and of course ended up in the same class with you. He's gonna get worse before he gets better so start opening your eyes to the new guys and friends at school. Maybe try to transfer classes if possible. Good luck.

Answer 14

He didn't.