He can't be my boyfriend, but he doesn't want to let me go? What to do?

Question

I love him and we have a great connection and get along really well but he doesn't want a bf/gf relationship. I can feel love from him and within me when we're together. Others see it as well. His friends always tell him and me that "he better not s***w it up"

It really makes no sense to me -- I feel like there must be something holding him back. He has no job. I know he can't take me out, etc. I have a good job.

I love him but maybe i should let go. What do you think??? And how do I let go when he stays in contact with me? What would you do?

Answer 1

OMG I am in the same situation other than the job thing. When you figure out what to do please let me know! I understand about trying to let go and they just keep you hanging on.

Answer 2

ok um, this is a lil intense. But maybe you should just take a breather, rather than completly cutting it off. If it's as good as you're saying it is, just give you two some space and time. In time, you'll figure out what you really want, so for now, just put it on the back burner.

Answer 3

Move on to a new and healthier relationship.

Answer 4

If you are to nice of a person you are stuck, You need to tell him to get lost, it is time to move on.

Answer 5

we have to make a friendship with him tell him plz don't any were