He did it again...?

Question

I can't believe it.

My boyfriend did it again.

We've been having problems with communication lately, and talked it out.

Nothing really was resolved, but he told me he would call me tonight to talk about it.

I had my frickin phone with me until 12:30 in the morning waiting for him to call.

Finally, I messaged him and asked why he hadn't called.

All he said was "Oh, I'm at a friends house. Change of plans. Sorry."

He's done this before, and it really upsets me.

What should I do?

Answer 1

its like he takes you as just some small thing in his life it happened to me before and it really pissed me off..i would say leave him...

Answer 2

your only 16, you have a whole life in front of you. why are you waiting on him!!!! your not his wife.and very obvious he's not ready for a real relationship. don't wast your life waiting for someone else to make you happy. go out with your girlfriends. I mean are you ready for marriage? that's what dating is all about looking for the right person to marry, and spend the rest of your lives together.

Answer 3

your 16 sweets, live your life. you have so much ahead of you. its not like you are 60. and oh by the way he's prolly cheating by the way he is acting. enjoy whats left of your summer go scout some boys at the local pool and have an open agenda for next school year.

Answer 4

doesn't sound like ahealthy relationship to me. :( I would definitely sit and seriously talk with him.

Answer 5

Do you really care about him? Because I don't think he's taking your relationship seriously. Tell him how you feel..

But if I were you, I wouldn't waste my time with him.

You're worth more than that. :]

Answer 6

Sounds to me your not very important in his life ..i would say dump him and move on!

Answer 7

tell him exactly what you are telling us. Tell him you are having problem with communication.

Answer 8

Is this guy really important to you? Do you wanna continue a relationship with him?

If yes, talk it out with him. Communication is key! Let him know it upsets you and hopefully he'll understand and improve if he feels the same way about you.

If no, dump him and move on! Don't let a boy waste your time if he doesn't feel the same way.

Answer 9

Give him some space you don't own him and he doesn't own you. That's the trouble with getting serious as a teen. Have some fun.