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i think my longterm boyfriend is cheating on me though he won't admit it. he left me for 2 months to party and i could never reach him on his cell.when i did there was always this same woman laughing in the background.he came back 6 weeks, now he has left me again.yet every night he is at home.he will tell me not to ring sometimes after 8pm, and if i do he gets all frustrated and stays at home.it seems like he is trying to escape me.today he told me he finished work at 5. i called his work at 4 and they said he had laft. he was in the pub with his cell switched on and off.then he went home and argued with me.what is he playing at???

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what an A** hole... thats all i can say. id say you deserve better, i know its a hard thing to swallow and it must be verryy hard for you to accept what is happening, but maybe its best for you, why dont you go through his phone when hes not around, that might help you find out something, thats what i did whenever i was curious about my boyfriend, and i found out alot!, the #1 thing in a relationship is TRUST... if you cant trust your partner its not worth it... hope this helps.
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WHY DO YOU KEEP ASKING THE SAME d**n QUESTION??? LEAVE HIM OR PUT UP WITH IT. I COULD SEE WHY HE TRIES TO AVOID YOU. IF YOU HAVE ANNOYED ME THIS BAD IN ONE DAY I CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT THAT POOR YOUNG MAN HAS ENDURED FOR THE PAST 6 WEEKS
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sounds like he is playing you. Just leave him alone, if he loves you he will come back and act right, if not, oh well. good luck. I've been there.
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no one really wants to be caught cheating, especially when he isn't done using u yet.he is cheating on u, but doesn't want to burn all of his bridges yet.he will only admit it when he's ready to end the relationship completely, so why are u putting up with such disrespect from him?if he left u to party then there is definitely another love interest, someone he is spending all of his time with.u already know what he is playing without any admittance from him, his behavior should speak volumes on just where his hearts at.
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IF he is cheating, why does he come back?

i fear my long term boyfriend may be cheating on me. he keeps taking 2 month breaks from me, and i can't reach him on his cellphone.when i did some nasty woman wud always be laughing in the background.he came back to me again for 2 months, then he started buying new underwear and headed off again. i spied on him nd only ever seen him with male colleagues,but something is going on.he keeps returning my calls and still keeping me on a string.if there was another woman, why is he so afraid of me catching him? why does he keep coming back to me and stringing me along?

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Because YOU let him come back. -Duh!

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because he is an immature boy..

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He comes back because you let him.

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Yes, he's cheating. He comes back to you because you let him, and because two (or more) girls are better than one. Have some self respect, or don't expect men to respect you. Drop this guy and find someone good for you!

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he is a sorry *** man ask him

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Because you are an easy target.

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wants it all

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by Jen Member since:

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Convenience. He sees you as a sucker.

Why settle for being his fall-back position? Let him live alone with nobody, or nasty women, or whatever.

Be the one that got away. You cannot make HIM be the one you wish he was.

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sounds like he is using you, dump him

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Because you allow it.

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by LORRAINE C Member since:

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Who cares why!! MOVE ON!!!

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why do you let him continually do that to you? You need to tell him that's it's over and set his things outside on the curb. He's cheating on you and you need to find someone else. You shouldn't be letting him get away with what he is doing. Good luck!

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You entertain him while he is looking for a new Fbuddy.

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You allow it. Give him the boot for good and go on with your life.

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Leave him

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He's keeping you as BACKUP incase his other relationship fails. Don't talk to him anymore!!!

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Because he can.... you're still there, aren't you???(fool!)

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by ~ go panthers ~ Member since:

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Well you let him.

If he knows you still have feelings for him

He will juggle with feelings and make you feel

Bad For nothing you have done. This has happened

To Me Before So i know how you feel. Dont let it

Get to you

Hope I helped!

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i am glad to see you are opening yourself up to the fact that he is cheating. your question has now changed for the better a little. he keeps coming back because he can, i know its hard to believe but it really is that simple. it is convenient and you are always there and he knows it. he does not come back because he loves you, it is a force of habit. you need to not be there when he comes back, he does not deserve to have someone waiting for him.

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Although I just let my ex-husband come back one time, it was only because he had no where else to go...end of story. He started cheated immediately after coming back to me. That is why he is now my ex. Poor girl he just married has no idea what she is in for. You need to drop him no matter how hard it is or deal with it. Sorry, you can't win in this situation.

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He will continue to go back to you as long as you Allow him to.

You are the one who needs to cut the string he is keeping you on.

He feels that he can do whatever he pleases, and you will always be there for him to walk on.

Don't be his door mat!

Demand respect for yourself!

You deserve better!

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Get a backbone stop letting this looser come back. He sees you as a weak woman who will always be there for him show him that you mean business and you are strong enough to let him go.

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Sweetie, that doesn't even need a paragraph to answer.....

He wants to have his cake and eat it too!!!!! Open your eyes!!!!!

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BECAUSE HE CAN!! You leave that door wide open for him to walk back in anytime he feels like it. He can just walk in and walk all over you, because YOU let him. Your fault, not his. IF you have any ideas at all that this means he CARES about you, think again - but this time, use your brain. Cheating on you is only part of what he does behind your back - no doubt he does plenty of things normal women would not tolerate their boyfriends doing. He is NOT afraid of you catching him - he is just a very sneaky underhanded person who gets his jollies from being that way. You are his entertainment - so JUMP! Wait.... you better ask him how high first!

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Obviously, he comes back because you let him. If being a #2 or #3 is fine with you, then stick with him. Otherwise, avoid him like the plague.

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I guess it's unanimous... All of us have the same answer!!! Wake up!!!

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Why are you wasting your time with this person? Stop waiting on a man!! If you aren't sure about the relationship now, you won't ever be. Move on!
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Haven't you asked this already?

LEAVE HIM. Is he acting like someone who loves and respects you?

Give him the shock of his life - Stop. Being. Available.

Move on!
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Ok, this is the fourth time I have read this question from you all of the question boards.......the answer is always going to be he is using you as a back up and you are letting him.....but keep asking you might just get the answer you are looking for

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He's playing that he'd rather get drunk and high, then be that good boyfriend for you. Dump his lazy, good-for-nothing ***.

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OK. 1st of all y do u keep taking him back after he leaves you? 2nd, the dead give away should have been when he told you not to call after a certain time. That's the time he's around his girl he's spending time with (because you're not his girl; just a do-girl). the game is called Cheat and Blame. The rules: 1: cheat on your girl, 2: blame her for something she didn't do so you can leave and cheat some more. Sounds familiar?
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nad they end of that as soon as you said cheating he becomes your ex
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Give it up girl, he is cheating now and always will on you. He's definately not worth your time, your love, or anything else. Put his stuff outside the door, change the locks, change the number on your cell and other phones and move on with your own life.

There are a lot of good guys out there looking to find the right lady for them. Find one of them and live happily ever after.

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