me and my husband have been fighting alot lately and everytime we do he always says very hurtful things like he doesnt love me or doesnt wanna be married to me and wants me to move out or that he cheated(which i thought he did a while back and he says he didnt but i just cant seem to trust him anymore,i want to believe he didnt but i dont know if i can) later he always says he didnt mean what he said he was just mad.i dont know what to do anymore...how can u say such hurtful things to someone u love???i could never say i didnt love him no matter how mad i was. ive told him how much it hurts me but it doesnt stop. and its not just that..it seems like he doesnt find me attractive like he used to sexually and phsycally .he also says thats not true but he doesnt kiss me much anymore,he never just come up and hugs me for no reason or says he like the way i look like he used to. he never starts s*x anymore,its always me stating it and i have to try for like 20 mins or more b4 he agrees(he told me during a fight that he hasnt wanted to have s*x with me for months but always gives in after a while,then said later he didnt mean it)i mean sometimes i feel like i could walk up to him butt *** naked and he'd probably just say im blocking the tv! anytime i get upset bout any of these things(or anything else) he just doesnt act like he cares at all. i can leave or be in the other room crying and he just sits there(i dont see how he can not care,if he was upset i couldnt just sit there and ignor him)anyways my question is what can i do about any of this?ive talked to him but it hasnt changed. i cant seem to forget everything he's "said in anger" and i feel like crying all the time thinking bout it and i feel like he doesnt love me or want me like he used to.am i crazy? i just need some advise plz help
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