He doesnt care like he should 2 (more details)?

Question

He doesnt care like he should, or am i being a baby?

my husband (of one year now) has been going out playing volleyball with his "buddies" every freaking night. sometimes he doesn't get home until 1am...it started really bothering me so we had a hard talk about it but he is doing it again. ive been sick for 3 days now and instead of staying home with me and taking care of me he still has the nerve to ask if he can go! this hurts my feelings, i feel like c**p, and he just doesn't understand why I'm upset. am i being a baby? i mean he can "hang with the guys" but its getting BAD! help...

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i have gone with him numerous times just to cheer him on and watch him play. ive taken pictures of them playing and even COOKED OUT for them all! i ve even played with them too but when i play nobody wants me on their team...the only night he stood up for me was when he was drunk...

Answer 1

Some times men can be so clueless. They are never in the know about anything no matter how much you talk to them and make then aware of the issue. I bet your husband comes to you sometimes and ask whats wrong even though you have already explained it to him. I don't think its that he doesn't care, he's is just another clueless man. In some cases he probably feels like, "oh my godI'mm married,I'm a old man now, let me go out and act like I'm young with noresponsibilityy". You need to walk him through this a little more, you have to train him. hopefully this works for you.