He hurt Me,used me to get rid of our baby what should i do?

Question

He hurt me by the worst EVER you can do to a girl.

He said he wanted me and loved me,He said if i got a abortion that he would stay with me,stupidly i believed him and a day after without even telling me had to find out for myself that hes got with some other girl.He said to me stright after i still want to be your mate though and we can still meet up i want to help you through this.But how can he say this when hes broke my heart?

i dont even like him in that way anymore,but i want to hurt him,play him ,mess him just like he did to me!

what should i do?

Thanks for all your answers!

Answer 1

do you know what.....?

men are little idiots

dont waste tears on him

because he isnt on you

and its more than likely he'll hurt the next girl and the next

it may hurt alot but see it like this

you've got that pig out of your life and you deserve someone better

someone that would love you and want you to have their child

and if you want to hurt him, dont meet up with him

show him you've moved on and dont need him

because that will hurt the most

he'll see it as if your not always thinking about him and you couldn't care less

thats gonna get on his nerves

good luck

Answer 2

There is nothing you can do now. Take time to think about what's happened and grieve. It's not easy to go through an abortion and you'll never forget what happened, but in time you'll move on and you'll manage again.

As for this guy, he sounds like a complete idiot, no worse than that. You deserve a million times better. I know how easy it is to make decisions you wouldn't otherwise when you're in a relationship and in love.

I wish there were some magically words I could give, but from my experience you just have to give it time. It will get better and you'll learn from your mistakes. You may need to talk to a professional to help through this.

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