He is 20, i'm 17...?

Question

So the manager of my soccer team is a college guy who helps out w/ the team. he used to go to my HS and he is super sweet/cute. (also doesn't look much older than 16 to be honest). we have this connection but i'm afraid that he just thinks i'm cute...i mean i haven't really had a convo with him but we have a lot of eye contact and a gut feeling.

Answer 1

are you ready to get married?  then flirt.

Answer 2

Everyone on here will tell you "OMG OMG 17 AND 20!!! ILLEGAL!!!!" But it's not AS LONG AS there is no s*x until 18.

See, dating is ok at any age even if you are still a minor for a couple of months (psh!), just as longa s there is no s*x. In some states thought, 16/17 are the legal ages for sexual consent so it depends where you live, you might even be able to have s*x with him, even though I don't recomend it.

It doesn't matter how old he looks as long as YOU know what you're doing. and as long as he will treat you right, like the lady you DESERVE to be treated.

Not all guys have s*x on their minds, and maybe this one is a good seed, so you should be careful, but give it a try.

And know that you don't have to hide anything. DATING is totally legal, but dating doesn't mean s*x, which is not legal right now (I'm sure you can wait a few months before you turn 18).

Plus, your maturity levels must match too, if he is an adult and you're a little kid in mind still, then it's not a good idea.

Just go for it, if you're sure, and don't let these stupid people tell you that dating is illegal, of course, when dating refers to just seeing this person on a regular basis, kissing, sharing special moments, and spending time together.

NOT s*x.

Answer 3

he probably jsut thinks of you as fun to hang around with sorry :(