He is a douchebag, He thinks we should be on his side?

Question

I need some help deciding what to do. this guy was like a brother to me.

2 of my best buds were a 4 year long couple who had a kid together. a month ago he broke up with her, started dating one of her room mates and stopped seeing his kid.

Shortly after, he left the room mate, got back together with my friend and then broke up with her right after wards.

she got wicked depressed and ended up in a hospital for 2 weeks. again, he left the room mate, got back together with my friend.

He had make up s*x and started planning a wedding with her this past weekend.

then today he calls her up and breaks it off to go back with the room mate and says its no big deal, hes happier with the room mate and no longer plans on visiting his son.

am i wrong to avoid him and his new girlfriend.

Answer 1

OF COURSE U R!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Not at all.  If this bothers you a lot (and it would me too) then let him be stupid on his own.  Your friend certainly does not have a very good friend in her roommate.  If I were her I would not ever get back with this guy...I am surprised she has let him stomp all over her like this.  Help her gain back some self esteem and move on with her life without him.  He behaves this way because she has let him.  As for the roommate, she really needs to find a new one and get out of this situation permanently!  She does not need this back and forth and neither does her child.  She should concentrate on making a stable life for her child on her own.  Her child will be eternally grateful to her for it as was my son.  Help your friend and cut the jerk and his g/f out of your life. Your girlfriend really needs your support now.   Good luck.