He is being DIFFERENT!!!!! I don't know what happened?

Question

I met him in a class in college about 2 years ago. He would stare and watch me everyday. Finally he approached me. He wasn't very cute and I wasn't interested at all, but he was sweet so I gave him my number and we've been friends for a long time. Well about 2 months ago I started having feelings for him and let him know. He is so sweet texting me all the time calling me princess, angel, goregous, precious baby. Making me feel so adored and cared for. I'm truly happy.

Well on Thursday last week he moved back on campus which is an hour from me. He totally changed. Never texts me anymore, hardly calls me anything sweet, everytime I ask if I've done something wrong or if he's just busy he gets upset with me and says I need to quit being needy! Well HELLO I've had his complete 100% attention for 2 years now and even more so the last 2 months and now it's just gone.

Example from this morning: ME: Hey baby

HIM: I'm in class ttyl

Yeah that was 3 hours ago.

What do ya'll think I should do?

Answer 1

take a deep breath. Go for a jog. Play hard to get its much more attractive then desperate :)

Answer 2

I will ask myself whether I still like him and want him. If I still like him then I would probably CALL and ASK him why is he treating me this way and being so different now.

If I'm not really in love with him then I would just forget about it and move on. Is not as if nobody will want me if I don't have him.

Answer 3

Uh huh....

I can tell you what happened. but I don't think you want to know about it.

Answer 4

Maybe, honey, you should have responded to his genuine affection the first time, rather than dragging him out for two years.  Sorry, he has every right to move on.

Answer 5

I agree. Quit chasing him. Stop texting, stop calling, do your own thing and stop worrying about him.

He'll come around when he sees you have a life outside of him.

And if he doesn't......well then you know it's over and no sweat. :)

Answer 6

He has dumped you and doesn't want to have a relationship with you. He doesn't want to talk with you and he doesn't want you to keep texting him. Find someone else who will treasure you for the wonderfulness that you are.

Answer 7

I'll tell you, he's got this attention on something (or someone) else. Don't take it personally, you have had his attention yes, but things apparently have changed and his interest has moved on. He's an hour away, and there are probably many other things taking up his time now. Take it easy, and don't panic. Time to grow up and allow the both of you to spread your wings and fly.