He is dangling her in my face? when he asked me to the school dance?

Question

So my (so called) friend Adam and i got in an argument last night because he lied to me. I haven't texted him at all because i am annoyed and I noticed before we even got in an argument he took me out of his top on myspace. I asked him why, and he wouldn't tell me why. He told me he just hid his top so he wouldnt run into that problem.

Every time i log onto myspace i notice he updates his mood so it's posted right on my home page. It went from "getting it on with Sarah Ali and Courtney." to "IS UNBELIEVABLE" to posting a picture of him with some girl he has been hanging out with a lot. When he told me he couldn't hang out all week cause his parents had plans for him. He asked me to the school dance 2 days ago, he was giving hints that he liked me. Before our argument. But now..I'm confused?

What do you think about his behavior? Little kiddish or is it just me?

Am i better off without him? I thought we were good friends but it is stressing me out so bad. And it doesn't help that he keeps dangling things in my face online. I don't know why he is doing this to me.

Answer 1

Honestly; find another guy.  You obviously are looking for a more solid relationship, and clearly, this guy isn't.  Find someone who is willing to work for you, and isn't afraid to tell you how they feel.

I had a guy like this.  I liked him a lot, and it seemed like he liked me a least a little bit, but he had a tendency to aggravate me.  It's not he victimized me or anything.  But we were pretty good friends; we talked about things that he wouldn't talk to his best friend about, but I would never make top friends...but I don't really care about that.  But there are other times that one moment, we got along great and had fantastic conversations, and the next moment, I felt like he was ignoring me or whatever.  This guy still really aggravates me sometimes even if I don't like him anymore.

I don't think he is trying "to dangle" anything in your face.  He is probably just that kind of guy, who goes around to have a good time.  Sure he might like you, but he probably likes a few other girls as well.  Trust me, you are better off without him.

Good luck, and I hope this helps!