He is going to meet me..?

Question

my longterm boyfriend left me as i am pregnant.his family are against this and wanted me to terminate.he is 28 and still livesa t home.i refused.although i said i would think about it-i won't.now my man says he will meet me again and take it slow,but does not want to go 'back'. so why wud he want to meet? and he thinks i am terminating

Answer 1

Welcome to the wonderful world of single motherhood.  

Perhaps it's time you smarten up a bit? I'm sure he's plotting your murder as we speak.

Answer 2

Abortion is something that is circumstantial. If he thinks you are getting one, you need to tell him otherwise. Maybe instead of keeping it you could always do adoption - it will be safer and better in the long run that way you won't struggle without a man by your side. If you can handle it and do it as a single mom, more power to you! Obviously he is a coward for leaving you and not a man, I don't think it would benefit you at all to have him in your life so make that choice. Would you rather have someone who left you when you needed him most or find someone else who will take care of you and yours? Take care girl!

Answer 3

Well it is up to you about what you do, but raising a child alone is quite a chore.  There are plenty of people looking to adopt, that may solve it.  He sounds real immature, and I feel bad for the mess you got yourself into, but birth control and common sense are a lot cheaper then having and unplanned child in a loveless relationship!

Answer 4

I think he may have a new trick up his sleeve, such as trying to get you to put the baby up for adoption.

I hope you don't go back to this guy.  He's a waste of breathable air.

Make sure you file for child support!!

Answer 5

Let him go and move on.