He kissed me and then apologized (PLEASE READ)!?

Question

My friend (Jack, who I have a huge crush on) found out that I liked him in this question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApILB.9wjhZFqyT1g_bykk_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080830125139AA831tu.

He took my laptop, read the question, laughed, and then french kissed me. Then he left. He hasn't called me since.

So, this afternoon, I went over his house. We started talking about our feelings for each other. Then we started kissing (for like 30 seconds,) but then he stopped, and said he was sorry. I asked him why, and he just asked me to leave.

Why doesn't he like me? What's his problem?

I think I might be in love with him, but he's so confusing. What do I do?

Answer 1

maybe he likes you, but hes afraid that he might hurt you, or he doesnt know if he can be what you want him to be.

im like that to, when i like somebody and have the chance to have them, im afraid to be with them because i dont want to disappoint them by not being the kind of girl he would like me to be.

so maybe that may be jacks case.

but you should ask him, maybe not in person, like in a note or a text or email.

goodluck.

Answer 2

Thats really confusing I'm sorry

Answer 3

:O

Woooow

My guess is that he likes you too, but confused at the same time? I dunno, i mean your right. Why would he say sorry if he knows u like him? It makes no sense. I mean if he liked u and u didn't like him back, and he kissed u, it would make sense for him to say sorry.

omg i have no idea, good luck with that though.

Answer 4

I'm not completely sure.  Maybe he doesn't like you back.  Or maybe he does like you but likes someone else too and is confused.  The second one seems more likely seeing as he was kissing you, unless he's a jerk who's just trying to play with your emotions.  I hope everything works out =)

Answer 5

heya hun, urmm.. no idea really :S

i think maybe he likes you but doesnt want to ruin your friendship, you should try talking to him about it but when he goes to kiss you, stop him, because this seems to be where the problem is.

hope everything goes okay for u

best wishes

xx

Answer 6

Try talking to him about this... not us... only he has the answer to your question...

Answer 7

k ima guy. he either already has a gf, but does feel a lot for you cause come on everyone crushes on they friends, and he cant indulge cause the commitment. ooorrrrr he's scared to take things further with you in fear of loosing the friendship (i have no idea how close you two are as friends i'm just stating my reasoning) just give it a lil time, he'll call, we always do.

Answer 8

Other then guesses I don't think you are going to find a straight answer... Who knows what's going on in this dudes head....

Sounds like he wants to end it before it starts but isn't too sure cause he just might actually like you and hasn't made up his mind. He has gave into some urges to kiss you but then wants to quit cause he isn't sure what he is feeling.

Perhaps?  

I don't know...

Ask him wtf is wrong and see what he says.

Answer 9

Just get over him.

Answer 10

You should try getting him alone and talk to him. Ask him why he does the things that he does. Tell him that he's confusing you and you don't know what to do. I'm sure he will give you an answer.

Answer 11

Perhaps he already has someone else and is trying his best not to go after you even though he feels attracted.

Either that or he isn't really into you.

Answer 12

he might have felt that you weren't into him