He likes me but idk if I like him?

Question

Okayy so this boy likes me and asked me out and I think I like him too but idk, about a year ago i really really liked him but then I stopped but idk if I do again now or not. And I just found out that hes liked me all this time even when I really did like him like a year ago. But now idk if I do, I think i do, I mean I cant stop thinking about him but idk?...I told him I like him a little but dont want a boyfriend so I just want to be friends. But I don't get it! Do I like him or not? I can't stop thinking about him, its like I like him but I dont?!

btw im 14

Please help!

thanks =)

Answer 1

Yeah, I had that exact same problem! I liked this guy because he was really funny and nice to me (NOT very cute! but looks aren't everything!) And then I found out that he like me and was going to ask me out. So I got REALLY nervous and I didn't really like him anymore because I just wanted to be friends! So when people kept on bugging me about it, I got really irritated. So, when he finally asked me, I was so nervous that I blurted out no in a mean kind of way. And I didn't mean to!

My point is, just stay friends for a while and get to know him better first. Then see if you like him enough that you want to go out with him. Just be yourself. Don't pretend that you're someone else. 'Cuz the odds are that he likes you JUST the way you are!  

Answer 2

which is the biggest part ? and move towards................

Answer 3

that's how I exactly feel too. tell him you just want to be friends. he will understand

Answer 4

i say just stick to being friends, because one day yall will break up, and u wont be able to be friends anymore, no matter what, because it will be akward!

good luck

Answer 5

Pick one or the other; no one likes being jerked around. If you like him, give it a shot. If it turns out that it doesn't work, end it. You are 14 and you have to figure out your feelings sooner or later :P

Answer 6

awww omg i wish it was that way for me, but its the other way around EXACTLY. I like him, and I think he likes me.. la dee da doo. Well, that same thing happened to me once, and he asked me to dance at this dance, and I was like sure, it cant hurt, just dancing with a guy

I know, this could start a friendship. But apparently he was thinking differently cus he asked me out the next day. I mean, l liked him AS A FRIEND, but would I be able to handle a relationship with him? He was REALLY nice and we talked in class, but I wasn't sure about going out with him, so I asked all my friends. I pretty much got the same answer out of all of them. "Go out with him for a week or two, see how it goes." That was about how long all other relationships lasted at my school. But I was willing to try cus he seemed very nice so I said yes. We lasted 3 weeks. It wasnt as good as it sound though cus we didnt talk as much as we did when we were just friends, and in the end when we did break up, it was just WAY too awkward to be friends anymore, so we almost never talked again, and we never do now. This may partly be cus were in different classes, but idk. I'm not saying this will happen to you, but this is how many things go. Try going out with him for a week and see how it goes. But honestley if you dont talk then end it, dont play around for weeks on the "I'll see what happens" excuse like I did. If its not working now, it probably wont work then either. And dont ruin your friendship with him if you do end up breaking up. Sure, it will be awkward at first, but hey, it will get better. Hope it turns out good !  

Answer 7

This is a very aggravating situation.  you have to really open up and think if you want him to be yours. If you liked him last year you may want to give him a chance. if hes one of those rare understanding kind of guys ask him for a little more time to think. if he really cares about you he'll give you more time.  

Answer 8

Take a chance go out with him, the worst thing that you can live the rest of your school life is the fear that keeps you wondering WHAT IF...............?

Sometimes taking a chance is the best thing we can do. Don't think about it so much, you will make your self crazy and stress out a lot, the answer is simple take a chance and go out with him.  

Answer 9

this has happened to everyone at somepoint.

you liked him at one point in your life and u hoped he liked you back, maybe you like the fact that someone whom u once liked has a crush on you..

if you cant stop thinking about him you probably have a crush on him and your not even aware because if you diddnt like him you would be able to think about other things besides him

maybe you should go out or not go out but just casually date, like as friends and see how things turn out that way you can find out the potential of you two being more then friends..

you can go out with a group of friends or with him alone, you can date the guy you like without being his girlfriend just to try it out.

sometimes its healty to see if your feeling are real for him,you dont want to regret it later on.

just have fun with him and keep him as a close friend because you never know if your feelings of confussion could be real.

good luck and have fun!

hope i helped!

Answer 10

TAWK TO EM FIRST AND SEE WHAS UP.... THEN IF U LIKE HIS SWAGG THEN HOLLA @ EM. IF NOT JUS BE FRIENDS. DONT SPEND UR TIME BEIN CONFUSED AND ASKIN ?'s TO SEE HOW U FEEL, CAUSE IT'S OTHA OPTIONS OUT THERE........ BESIDES IF U REALLY LIKED EM NA, THEN U WOULDA BEEN HOPPED ON DAT CAUSE I WOULDNT LET NO ONE PASS ME BYE ESPECIALLY SINCE I NOE WE BOTH GOT FEELINS 4 EACH OTHA.......

Answer 11

this happens to me alot ahha. so bascially you should like tell him you dont know what you want yet but you like him. so that covers not being b/f g/f for alittle but he is still reserved for you. thats what i did for my guy