He loves me and ignores me? asks me to be his gf.. then 2 weeks later?

Question

he loves me he loves me not? choose one based on this:

THis has all happened in the last couple weeks

- he says he wants me to be his gf even though we weren't planning on it since I'm moving away in 2 weeks

- he says he loves me

- get really concerned when i get mad

- almost broke up with him but then he seemed so not up for that and concernec about me

- he ignores me, pretends his phone is broken (don't ask me how I know that), says he wants to hang out these 4 days but never follows through.

-disappears for a weekend no word.

-only talk to me when i say im angry/ confused?

- his excuse was he plans things last minute.. but still??

he does tend to call more when i ignor him for a while but.. only a little

- he is super busy with like a million jobs and med school

- msn name says positve things?

what seems more likely? yes or no?

we are breaking up because i am leaving but.. I want to know.

thnaks guys!!!

Answer 1

oh my gosh! your guy sounds like mine! ummmm since i'm having the same problem that you do, i can't be completely accurate. But, reading from another person's view, I would say that he likes you and cares for you, but guys are soooooo retarded about calling back and being ignored and I think they're basically all the same. They don't think like girls, we are very interested in their lives, yet they don't think about calling us after days, UNLESS we haven't called them. you know? I wouldn't spend too much time on this guy. He doesn't sound worth it, since you're leaving.. good luck! you can do better! guys are missing some brain cells...

Answer 2

honestly i think he just wanted to get with you before you left.  he obviously is not puttin any work into it.

Answer 3

He loves you but is VERY confused/busy and has no time in his life for you based on your information given. I would dump him.

Answer 4

I wouldn't stay with him if I wasn't moving. He seems like he isn't serious. You can do much better.

-Jean

Answer 5

He says he love you? I think he just loves the fact, that he thinks he has you rapped around his finger. think about it, what do most woman like to hear? Those 3 words. And it looks like he knows this & is using those 3 words to manipulate you. SORRY honey he is not the one for you. I've been married 18 years, she's my wife and my BEST friend. We have tons in common. Our little secret is really no secret. have good communication & DO NOT have any secrets, (it really works for us) than, that way, you'll know if you're right for each other. keep looking He's out there, DON'T give up cause he's looking for you too.

Answer 6

give up

spend time with your friends before you leave

Answer 7

hes just a jerk,

you can do better,

i had a bf just like him.

and i didnt want to leave him.

but i kicked him outta my life.

you dnt need the stress.

Answer 8

r u a booty call?

Answer 9

Effen guys!

Answer 10

sounds like a guy who cant make up his mind about you =/

leave him, find someone who will do anything to be your everything

you deserve better! x

Answer 11

This probably isn't the answer you want, but I'd have to say he loves you not. A lot those signs are a sign of cheating actually..Did you ever think of that? not saying he is a cheater, but just a thought. I hate to say it but you probably should have left him earlier..and that c**p he did! It looks like he's trying to hold onto you for as long as possible, and when you threaten to leave or say your angry..etc he pulls you in (by making you think he loves you). God, men, i swear! Sometimes i say, their more confusing then women haha. Good thing you guys broke up though, you can find better than that. Goodluck in the future and remember, never take any **** from guys haha.