He loves me but he likes her? i dont know what to do..should i stay or go?

Question

this guy that i have been off and on with for about 1 year and a half. is "talking" to this girl that he kind of likes. he says he only likes her about 4 of 10 and me 9 of 10.

but anyways.

we stopped talking for a while and then came back to eachother like we always do.

but there is this other girl that he likes too. but he says that he wouldnt ever go out with her. but he asked me if we could just claim eachother and blah blah blah instead of going out.

over the weekend i decided that we just need to move on and let it go.

earlier on. whenever i sa that he convinces me to stay.

this time i got my friend to tell him indirectly from me.

without him knowing that i told her to say that.

she was just like we were talking to sarah this weekend and she say she doesnt want you anymore.

i thought he would stop talking to me after that.

but of course he convinces me yet again. and he says that he loves me. and that he only likes her and that theyre not tht serious they just hang out everyonce in a while but he couldnt ever go out with her.

should i just stay obviously if hes taking so much to convince me?

i mean he says that he loves me and wants me like he tells my friends all the time.

which is what makes me stay

Answer 1

hes using both of you. hes probably saying the same thing to her that he is to you dont fall for it dump him before you really get hurt.

Answer 2

he likes her so that means he might be playing you i would not say leave him but watch him

Answer 3

Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Who knows who else he is playing with. He is manipulating you both. Dump him and find someone who you can trust. This kind of behavior does not stop, it only gets more sneaky.

Answer 4

well if he likes you " 9 to 10" then why hasn't he decided to pick you yet? a matter a fact its been a half a year and he still doesn't know if he wants to be with you ? uh huh sweetie your wasting you time, if it takes a guy this long-a year and a half- to figure if he wants to be with a woman or not then hes not serious in trying to get with you. If he loves you then ask him why he hasn't asked you out yet? ask him why that if he likes you so much then the other girl then why is he still playing the back and forth game between you and her? I'm sorry but if a man REALLY wants to be with a woman he will try and do anything he possible can to get this woman in his life. But sense he knows that your just gonna keep coming back every time then hes not gonna make a effort trying to get you to become his woman. You need a guy who KNOWS what and who he wants, not a guy who plays head games and can't decide if your wroth being with or not.

Answer 5

I'd say move on. If he loves you, then why isn't he with you already? Obviously he is too dumb to realize who he really likes. And you shouldn't have to go through all that with his mixed emotions because end the end you might get your feelings hurt. && stop letting him convince you because after a while it shows that he isn't' the right person for you. If he really liked you he would've asked you out already. You shouldn't be letting him get in the way of your time. No guy is worth all that by getting you all confused. I know you may like him a lot, but there comes a time in every girls life where they have to move on, even though they may regret their decision. But eventually you'll feel happier with your choice because you know what was better for you. I'm sure there is some other guy that wouldn't be at all confused whether really like you.

Stop letting him put you through all this. Don't let your life get all ruined just because of one boy who keeps "convincing" you all these things. It's just not worth it.