He need to be beaten up?

Question

okay I study martial arts. when in a fight, the best defense is to avoid the situation. Fighting should be the LAST solution to a problem, but I believe some people need beaten up for their own good. lemme explain. my bro has a friend who's mouthy, rude, disgusting, insulting, anything you can think of. honestly, he's gonna p!ss off the wrong person and get hurt pretty bad. What I think is, for his own good, someone needs to put him in his place. Not hurt him bad, but hit him across the jaw and knock the wind out of him, simply to do him a favor and teach him he can't get away with talking like that and needs to learn a little respect. does anyone agree with me? like I said, not hurt him, but bruise him.

Answer 1

this guy sounds like a jerk i uesed to know. i felt the same way about him. so i got him pissed off with me enough to have him say he would kick my a#$ so we picked a place and i "bruised" him up. i thought it would shut him up but it didn't he came up with every thing you could think of to explain why i beat him. said that if we fought agian he would win. about a month latter some guy did the same thing to em and he reacted the same way. he was still a jerk to everyone but he shut up when i was around so that helped. but i think that some people are just going to be jerks no matter what you do.

Answer 2

wrestle around with him and rough him up a little. and if he still does it take him to the hood. i can promise he wont do it again

Answer 3

I believe "framing" who be better.

hide some g*y lifestyle material under his bed so his mom can find it.

That should teach him a lesson.

Answer 4

I can kind of understand how some people deserves some punishment, but I don't see how you have the right to teach him this "lesson". What you're saying sounds like an excuse to let out your anger on him.

I wonder if hitting him just to make yourself feel better a good thing for him. Lets say somebody tries to hurt you thinking that it's for your own good. Now does it sound like an excuse?

The other guy is being insulting, disgusting, and rude because it makes him feel better. It doesn't really matter whether it's verbal or physical. If you hurt him, you would be pretty much doing similar thing even if people around you agrees or lets you do it. By the way, bruising him=hurting him. You sound as if bruising him won't hurt him or something.

PS: But if he gets way too personal, I won't stop you (although I can't in the first place). Try and avoid as much trouble as you can though. If you think it would lead to some annoying conflict, don't do it. Just do a little prank on him without him noticing who did it(a light prank though).

Answer 5

I totally agree with you.  I think if he were beaten up, without injuring him severely, he might learn a lesson.  And it could prevent serious injury in the future.  I don't agree with the people who are warning you about possible legal consequences, though of course it is a possibility that he could press legal charges for assault.  That's a risk you may or may not want to take.  Sometimes people need to experience the natural consequence of their actions and learn from that.

Answer 6

I agree completely. It's a way of maturing and growing up.

Answer 7

No it is not your place to "give him a lesson" so to speak. You do not have the right to hit somebody because you do not like their personality. If that were the case I would be laying the smackdown on moron's right and left.

What you are talking about is assault. Go to jail, do not pass go, do not drop the soap. Is putting him in his place worth the risk? If you want to, tell him that he needs to tone it down before he offends the wrong person. While this will have no effect on his behavior, it will be fun when you get to visit him in the hospital and say "I told you so".

Are you responsible for his actions? No only he is. Should you try and help him improve? Absolutly, but brute force is not the way. You cannot force your will on other people, because that makes you worse then him. He will have to accept personel responsibility for his actions, just as you will.

Answer 8

Some people have to learn the "hard way."

My brother acts the same way. He is 5"10 and weighs all of 135 pounds in soaking wet clothes. He has a mouth like he was 8 feet tall and 600 pounds though. He is completley rude, and will insult anybody that he doesn't think will beat him up for it.

Long story short, he ended up stealing $500 from a grown man. The guy broke his jaw, his left arm, knocked a patch on his eardrum off, and killed his ego. And he hasn't mouthed off to anyone since.

The best way to handle it is to wait until he mouths off to you and wrestle him into a hold where he isn't in a lot of danger, but is in a good amount of pain. It kind of goes against the self-defense philosophy, but you aren't really fighting him. More like "playing rough"

Answer 9

Just not worth it, guys like that talk tough as soon as you whoop him he will cry to the cops and you'll be in deep s**t, trust me I have been there.

Answer 10

Do you think that it would work?

Some people will talk sh*t no matter what you do to them. If you think that it will one day save him from a beating then find a situation and do it, but look for other way to kill his ego a bit first.

Answer 11

1. the best way is solution is not to hang around people who gives you negative energies like this irritating guy. Someone will bash him up for sure. Trust me on that. You don't want to be around those who have no respect for anyone.

2. if that failed, walk up to his face really close  slowly and scream on top of your lungs "shut the f**k. up!" that would give him a serious shock and he would know that you are serious.

3. if that failed. If he is being rude and disrespectful to you. Just walk off, except there may be a bit a accident because you can be intentionally clumsy and step or stomp on him foot, or shoulder charged him as you walk through him as if he is not there. Lots of accident can happens if you are creative. just don't forget to say sorry after the accident. like "i am sorry i did not notice you were there, i have a medical condition with my vision. i have trouble seeing morons/dickh*ads"

If he want to fight, well , welcome it. There is a saying that goes like this, when  you exhausted all logical reasoning and you still  failed, and that person is still being disrespectful to you. it is time to let  the fists do the talking.  Just don't do with everyone is watching, unless for self defence.

Creating accidents is always more fun. He disrespect you, you just walk over/through  him as if he is not there.

Answer 12

The best thing to do is to ignore him all together.  It is not your place to decide who to beat up. Besides if things are as you say, he will most likely end up running his mouth to the wrong person anyway.  As for him learning respect, no one can say if he will.   I've run across many like him in my life. Usually they talk big but back down when they realize they are in trouble.  I used to screen my students before allowing them to train with me. Then I realized that these guys are losers because they have no discipline and no patience. So now I let them join my classes. A few change for the better. most don't stick around long enough to learn anything that would make them more dangerous.  No matte if they stay or leave they quickly learn that they are not as tough as they think they are.

Ignore him. If you or anyone else fights with him you only show that you are allowing him to control your mind.   You often hear people say something like "He made me mad"!    The real truth is no one can make you mad. If you become mad it is because you decided to get mad that what ever it was he did or said.   As long as you let anyone else control your mind you really aren't in control of your own mind.  Think about it.  We all pride ourselves in our ability to control our bodies and develop self-defense skills. Yet many of us never learn to be in control of our mind when someone does or says something that we don't like.  Perhaps it is time to look into our own goals as a person instead of being ticked off by the stupidity of others.

Katana ...... thumbs up to you!

Answer 13

The Bible says "a fool's mouth invites a beating".  So whether or not he deserves to be beaten, his mouthing off will invite it.  That said, you and your brother should stop hanging out with this guy so that you don't end up being a part of the beating.

Some people learn from being beaten severely, others don't.  It depends upon his or her level of stupidity.  Notice I said his or her because there are women who think they can mouth off to men and not get beat down.  A fool is a fool, regardless of gender and eventually, a fool's mouth will invite a foot in the behind.