He needs to be with his family in another city what about me?

Question

I mean what should I do? I love this guy Im with and miss him. I just need advice from someone.what would you do?

Answer 1

Sounds  like a question for  him...you should ask him "what about me?" Your question doesn't tell people much and doesn't paint a clear picture about what the deal is.

Answer 2

It is true long distance relationships rarely work but, if it is true love then it is worth the try. Anything worth having is worth fighting for! Discuss your feelings with him the next time you are together (not over the phone) and see if he feels the same about you. I don't know how old you are so I won't suggest you moving to be with him but, maybe you can work out some way where you can take turns commuting between your towns and spending the weekends if old enough alone and if not with a chaperone. Real love always finds a way and when you are apart it feels like your heart is breaking bu,t as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder!

Answer 3

I don't know how long he needs to be with his family, but I do know my family comes first with me. If is is possible move to be with him if you feel that strongly about each other. If you can't be with him you can try a long distance relationship or choose to wait to see each other until you can be closer to each other. Good luck this is a tough situation and only you can make the right decision.

Answer 4

stick it out if you feel its worth it. it sounds like this guy is nice and family oriented though.

Answer 5

I lived 5000 miles away from my guy for 3 years, and we are now married & living together ^____^ It's worth the wait, and now it doesn't even feel we've ever been apart.

Answer 6

Try a long distance relationship if you both want to make it work.  I lived 5 and 1/2 hours from my fiance for several years.  It was rough, but worth it.  And, now we're married.  

Answer 7

i would go with him! if you love him and can't live without him you should go.don't let him go!

Trust me long distance relationships don't work at all.

so either you go with him or break up with him and get over him cuz his a guy and if hes away from you there is a big chance that he will cheat wel thats my opinion hope i helped!

GOOD LUCK WITH U AND UR MAN!!!!!-girl don't let him go if you love him!

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Answer 8

It depends on the situation; you need to provide a few more details about why he needs to be with his family, how far away this is, and what is preventing you from moving with him.  

If you're both legal adults, and you're really sure you want to be with him long-term, and the city is too far away to commute more than once a week, then move to the same city.  You don't have to move in together yet.  You can continue dating until your relationship is ready for the next level.

If you're underage, then you need to stay where you are.  There will be other guys, and if this guy is the one he'll still be the one a few years from now.

If there is something else preventing the move, or the guy simply isn't interested in continuing the relationship, then you both need to focus on what you NEED to do, not what you WANT to do.

Answer 9

He has made his choice and chose his family, unless he can't afford to live alone and has to go home.  Then he has no choice but to go home.

You didn't say how old either of you are and if you are in school or have jobs.

I would stay where you are for now and try a long distance relationship.  You can talk on your cell phones, Internet and maybe see each other on week ends (depending on how far away he is moving).

If you really love each other, you will find away to keep the flames hot.

Good luck!!!