He never responded to my text message...what should I think..?

Question

So the guy I've been seeing sent me a good morning text message yesterday (he calls me his superstar). I replied as soon as I got a chance, we both text while we're at work. Then replied to my message by asking "It's a superstar type day"? I replied by saying it's way better than yesterday and asked how his day was going but he never responded, that was 11:30 yesterday morning, and I still haven't heard from him.

I know he's really stressed with work and they've been working him long hours. I don't want to seem too pesky by calling him and asking him why he ignored my message, but I don't know what think. Is he blowing off my messages now or what? I just thought it was strange because it's very unlike him.

Answer 1

you are still with in 48 hours...GEEZ get a life...and give him a break.  Back off a bit and let the txt at least go thru.  you are only dating

Answer 2

Your stressing over nothing.  He's not even your boyfriend just ignore him and let him chase you for once.

Answer 3

well dont even ask if he got it.

just send another, ask how hes doing. not like you sent a dozen after that and are looking desprate

Answer 4

He may be busy

Answer 5

maybe the message didn't go threw. i would text a note say hey have a nice day. or something see if he text back . you say he is  busy and stressed, don't add to it. text and say hi. when he has time he text back.  

Answer 6

No he's not blowing you off. Just do your own thing and stay busy. He's probably thinking about you, but a little hung up around the ol' job.

When he is free, he may more than likely text you. If he doesn't, give it a week from the original text and call him to say you are checking up on him.

He may be playing hard-to-get. Some guys are weird like that.

If he is "cool" with you, MOVE ON! There are plenty of fish in the sea, honey.

Answer 7

Just call him.  Don't even ask why he didn't answer your text.  Don't let him think that you'd trip on something so trivial.  And try not to let something so trivial bother you.  If that's the worst thing that has happened in your relationship... consider yourself lucky.

Answer 8

Calm down. It is strange that you haven't heard from him. When he text you back ask him if everything is all right.  

Answer 9

Maybe his phone died?

Maybe he forgot his cell phone somewhere?

Don't do the whiny girl thing to your guy friend... bad idea, because he'll think you're high maintenance.

Answer 10

Why are you taking advantage of your employer and text messaging on his time?  Maybe he got caught by HIS employer doing something that is probably against the company policy. It really irritates me when my co-workers text  message and talk on cell phones when they are supposed to be working. Your employer (and his) are not paying you to send love notes to each other.

When you get off of work today, just call him on the phone for a visit, instead of texting. That's not very personal anyway.

Answer 11

well, are you sure he GOT the message? if i were you, i'd just wait. if he really is blowing off your messages then you shouldn't write to him first anymore, and if he isn't , he'll write soon... no reason to worry :--)

Answer 12

Check the obituaries.

Answer 13

Call me crazy but you could actually pick up the phone and call him.  I'm sure you'll still have your fair share of "LOL's" and such.

Answer 14

Back off.  He's either busy or he doesn't feel like texting you right now.  Either way you'll know the answer when he does or doesn't call you in the next couple of days.  

Answer 15

Well did you ever take into consideration that he may not have gotten it and is thinking you are ignoring him? haha I don't know that's just how i think. You should just wait it out because you're right about the pesky thing, he doesn't need one more stress in his life/

Answer 16

Check your draft texts.  Maybe it didn't send and he is just as confused.

If it's not in there.. just send a simple message:

Thinking of you ~ Superstar

Answer 17

I think you might be a bit too concerned over this. Call him and ask him how he is! It is 2008 - a woman can call a guy. You have nothing to loose.

Answer 18

He might not have gotten the text message.  I know sometimes I miss text messages and wonder how come I never got a reply but in reality, my phone just never got the reply.  It has been 24 hours, go ahead and call him tonight.  Just to see whats up.  

Answer 19

he probably lost his phone or forgot to reply or something