He only has a conversation with me whenever he thinks i'm serious?

Question

he only IMs me whenever im serious about a subject im talking too. It doesnt make sense. Whenever he thinks im not serious about anything i talk with him he doesnt even reply or talk? But when i do he has his full attention to me? Why would he do that? we cant have a normal non serious convo, i dont understand, hes different with others.

Answer 1

um, maybe that's the only time he's able to participate with what you're talking about. this happened to me, but the situation had more to this than "he only listens to me when I am serious." Usually guys like that don't fully respect you or has mixed feelings with you if he's different with others.

Answer 2

He is moody and introvert.

As per my experience, introverts are very selfish and think only about them selves. Normally they keep everything to themselves. They are not givers, but only takers.

Whatever it may be, either take him as he is or leave him to his destiny.

There no via media in this type of situation.