He proposed 2 me....i need other's opinion/experience

Question

but we r still have 1 year from now before graduate for our bachelor degree. should i get married during studying?

Answer 1

Bachelor's is the first degree, it's so important for future employability.  Get that first, weddings etc create stress and need clear planning, time to organise and money.

How would a potential employee rate you if when asked, 'Why did you fail your degree?' you answer, 'Because I wanted to get married.'..it shows lack of planning, clear thinking, prioritising, all of which are important attributes in your working life.

If you love each other, you can wait...:)

Answer 2

Pick a date you both want. I got engaged my senior year of high school (we went to college together). We got married 3 months ago. We got married on our 6 year anniversary. We picked a date special to us. We both graduated with our bachelors degrees first, but I was in my first year of masters degree program at the time. I'd say graduate first. Plan the wedding of your dreams. Plus, this will give you time to stash some money away to pay for this wedding. You can't make family pay for it all! ^_^

Answer 3

You don't have to get married right away!  It'll take some time to get everything organized and together.  If you need to do a 2 year engagement, that's not unheard of.  If you can do a year or year and a half, that's average.

Congratulations to you!!!!  

Answer 4

wait 1 year

Answer 5

It can be done, and it is ok to wait, if you move forward with it plan a simple but yet elegant wedding. If you wait I don't blame you but it is nice to have in house support during school and as long as you don't throw children into the mix being married is not that much harder then dating and going to school. But you two need to do what is right for you both and what will fit most into your needs.

Answer 6

i think u should get married w him if u really love him and if u think u should then u shousld!

Answer 7

I would wait until the studying is over. If he is really ill, then you might consider living together first.

Answer 8

Well I would say yes get married. He will more than likely support you through studying so that you will still be up on your grades.  

Answer 9

I would just enjoy being engaged for the time being. Once you are both finished your degree, that's when I would either have the wedding, or start planning it. You have too much on your hands right now with trying to finish your degree, and all the exams, studying, and such. I would just wait it out for now. Do whatever feels right for the two of you. Congratulations on the engagement by the way.  

Answer 10

i would get married in 1 yr. and plan the wedding slowly w/less stress and enjoy being engaged

Answer 11

Now is not the time to be trying to plan a wedding.  Get engaged if you like, but leave the wedding until after you graduate.

Answer 12

No dont do it...if u rush now....and dont settle down career wise...u shall be in trouble in the future...take your time...if you also love him....tell him the same..but that both of you need to settle down in a good job..only then you can get married

Answer 13

In my opinion, you shouldn't. ask him to wait until you're both done with you're education and get settled. if u want, you can make it a long engagement. if he loves you, he should understand.

Answer 14

Nope-get that degree 1st.  If it is meant to be what is 1 year?

My Mom's advice once was if I wanted a Master's wait until after. She knew I wanted it and I did wait. I see the Mom's in grad school exhausted and guilty not having time for their marriage and kids-and often thank her for it.

My opinion but get that B.S. 1st

Good luck

Answer 15

you can say yes to him and just be engaged for now and when you graduate you can plan a wedding and get married after your degree is done. Enjoy bing engaged and spending time with one another. Just make it a very special time. Just remember this life is short, and you never know what is going to happen if yall are meant to be together and get married then it will happen. Just love one another everyday and enjoy every second you have. I would say yes and just enjoy knowing that in a years time you will be his wife.

Answer 16

from what ive heard and all that its best to study and get ur education because is something goes wrong you got education and a degree to help you

Answer 17

If you want to get married now, I would say go ahead.  Don't plan too fancy of a wedding though, if you want a big fancy wedding then plan it over the next year and get married after graduation.  That way at least you can take a nice honeymoon/graduation trip!

Answer 18

First off Relax. Everything will work itself out.  I too am recently engaged but I am 2 years away from my Bachelors degree.  We have decided to wait until after my schooling is completed so that I can have my degree and so that we will both end up having occupations that will be able to support us, especially with the way the economy is going.

The important thing is to get your schooling done, if you marry any sooner chances are you will not end up completing your education and will regret it later down the road.  Like others have stated, if he loves you he will wait for you.  My fiance has a health problem as well but we deal with it each and every day and don't let it control our decisions or our lives.  Don't rush what will come in time.  Life is too short to rush through things, take your time and make sure it is something that YOU really want to do and live life with no regrets. Love eachother, be with eachother, but wait that year until both of you can support yourselves and you have that degree in your hand.