He purposely tried to get me pregnant!?

Question

my ex boyfriend admitted to trying to get me pregnant he wanted kids and i didn't want anymore. i have a 2 yr old daughter. we agreed to using condoms or my diaphragm. we lived together for a while. i told him i loved him but i didn't want to get married because nothing is gaurunteed that and he has been married once before. he was upset that i didn;t want to get married he hasn't been divorced a year yet. he has a daughter that he never really gets to spend time with and i didn't want to have anymore kids and be a single parent again. he got upset about that. i was cleaning over by his side of the bed when i saw all the condoms so i just picked them up and put them in the drawer well the wrapper was punctured it looked like someone had stabbed it with scissors i threw it away i looked at all the other condoms and noticed the same things. i went through the trash and all the condoms had holes in them. he even put a hole in my diaphragm we hadn't used it in while just used condoms.

Answer 1

Time to cut your losses. Anyone that deceitful and unwilling to isn't worth your time.

Answer 2

That's unacceptable. I would send him packing.

Answer 3

When men have a baby with a woman, they consider her to be "Free Pus*y".   He wants to make you his property.  He sounds scary.  If a man put his hands on me, I'd be through with him.  I've seen women in my family get their as$ whipped all the time and it aint pretty.

Answer 4

What a prick.

Answer 5

So what is the question, he's your ex boyfriend he tried trapping you, thank god your still not together because it sounds like you both wanted different things, and he was hoping if you got pregnant you would be happy, and everything would work out.

Answer 6

it seems like he really wanted to be with you ? Kinda creepy though Lol

Answer 7

Leave his crazy *ss.  Oh wait-he's ur ex-stop having s*x with him then.

Answer 8

that is crazy!!! there is no way u can stay with him. if he does that just think of what other things he could do to you. please break up with him and find somebdy who wants the same things you do. think about your daughter

Answer 9

if he is true about what he said you need to move either to a different house or state for a while

Answer 10

yikes.

he seems like a sly basstard.

Answer 11

He's probably just trying to find something to control you with. Had an ex that wanted to get me pregnant so I wouldn't go away and do training to get into a new job. He turned out to be a jealous, physically abusive control freak. Also threatened to kill me.

Answer 12

Put a restraining order on him so you'll have that in place before more problems occur.

He wants you pregnant so he'll have a place to rest his head when he's kicked out of his other girlfriend's houses. You'll be his backup. Permanently.

Answer 13

How disrespectful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You need to have a talk with him, and I really home you're using more than a diagram now.... He has disowned your trust as a partner and you have many things to think about now.  For one - he wants a family - you dont so is it worth putting up the fight and keeping him or kicking him to the curb?!

Personally in my opinion he has step over the line with you and this is by far pathetic for him to go that far...

Answer 14

oh wow. i would leave him if i was you. he's trying to be sneaky.

Answer 15

motherf***ing *sshole

Answer 16

Why are you having s*x if you do not want to be pregnant?