He said he gives me 95% chance for marriage but he has to wait for his parents ans. What will be their ans?

Question

He said he is quite interested in marrying with me but he has to wait for his parents ans. He was planning to come to india soon and his parents have choosen a girl for him. After that he will decide which would the best option for him. He also wants me to look for someone else who i think would be perfect me for me, though he think he likes but everything depends on what his parents say. I really like him. What do i do? how do i know what he exactly wants to do? On one hand he wants me to wait for him but if he chose the other girl then?

Answer 1

Go....run while you can. What happens when you want kids? do you need a permission slip off of his mom? stay clear find someone who would if they needed to forsake thier family to be with you (not suggesting they do but...)

You deserve better than being a choice.

Answer 2

find someone who truely loves you who wouldnt p**s about with your emotions like that. you deserve better.

Answer 3

I'd dump him and find someone who 100% percent wants to marry you and who doesn't have to wait for Mommy and Daddy's permission.

Answer 4

he sounds like a bit of a Tw&t, sorry if that isnt what you want to hear but if he really loved you he would have been upfront and honest with his parent and yes i know religion is a big issue but im sure they would understand. he is toying with you and it needs to stop before you get really hurt, tell him he needs to choose now before he meets this other girl otherwise you are letting him walk over you and it isnt on.

what makes him think he has the right to compare you to some one else and see whoe would be 'the best option'

Answer 5

If you're Indian, your parents should call his parents and demand he stop toying with your emotions-- it's a disgrace.

If you're not Indian, he will probably marry the woman his parents have chosen.

He said he wants you to look for someone else-- I think you should!