He said to her "If we break up, I won't have anything to lose." Do the following actions back up what he said?

Question

This is for my friend...

She broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years on last wednesday. Well, she has 2 c him at church every sunday and she hates that!!!! She doesn't want 2 c him, be around, talk 2 him...at all!!! He sat right infront of her at church and he was looking all happy and talking 2 people that he doesn't normally talk to. She never spoke a word 2 him and he never said a word 2 her either. She had a meeting 2 go 2 after church and he stood around until after her meeting and once he knew that she was about 2 walk out of the room, he started laughing and talking to someone. Once she walked past him without saying anything, he finally left. It seems as though he is doing fine without her? Is this true?

Answer 1

Nope, he still has feelings for her. He is trying to make her jealous and make her think he is doing fine without her. In reality he is still hurting. If she is over him tell her to move next time he sits in front of her, or talk on the phone while she walks out of a room. what she would be doing is letting him know she is not interested in him any more and eventually he will figure that out and move on. Right now he is just testing out the water to see if she is really over him. Tell her to be strong and it will get better. Be the bigger person.

Answer 2

He seems to have the need to flaunt something in front of your friend.  I think he has a real problem.  It seems like he wants to make her hurt or suffer.  She should change churches, or anything else she has to do to stay away from him.  He sounds like a real loser.