He sed/she sed - how much bacchnal???

Question

i kno ppl like to gossip but oiii - i ent neva seen/heard so much ish since i livin down here...

seem like d whole a south in i flickin bizness famaly

even school gurls like dey ent got nothin to study but i

grown folx even worse---

i nah d type person who mix up in dem ting, but i need to kno how do ones stay clear from d h8 & backbitin?

i doh trus nobody down here...NObody - dat mekin it real hard on i to even want to mek frens & do anybody kno wat it like to leave all famaly & frens?

dis beatin i down Y!fam

i need som guidance

give tanx

blessings to all

Answer 1

Girl i went thru dat same kinda strss a couple years back. and all i did was ignore it cuz ah know what de truth is. Yeah it dos hurt but ignore it, it will only make u stronger.

and cut dem outta ur life and thoughts

doh study it cuz if dey hadda spend time outta their life to gossip and talk bout u, thn yuh important

so b like a duck and let it roll off yuh back. evntually dey will see yuh not encouraging their ****. u are above their level

hope all works out right

bless chica

Answer 2

Girl, don't take it so hard. All dem macco and dem does make yuh life miserable and nex ting yuh know, dey on to somebody else bizness. Is when yuh let dem know yuh vex, dey does close in more! LOL...! d**n mongoose and dem...

Fuh real, yuh is a real Trini now!

Answer 3

girl me an friggy get catch up in dat kinna baccannal self! ask she! We had a friend in common and d girl used to be givin me ah story an den be goin an tellin friggy something else... Friggy d real cuss me out ah time... but now as time pass we get to realise what was d cause ah all d baccannal, an well we cut she outta we life completly cause who need ppl like dat in yuh life...ent friggy

To tell u d truth sometimes yuh hadda burn to find out who is genuinely ur friend, cause ah good friend wouldnt involve u in dat kinna comess.

u cant stay outta comess in trinidad anyhow yuh take it yuh names does call even if u not there

Answer 4

Girl! Just keep your head down. Try not to get involved in all the old talk. I can't stand gossip, and my mantra is usually "i doh want to hear I doh want to hear"..but people will still talk. So the bes you could do is keep your mouth shut, so nobody could say you said it!

Answer 5

Yuh know yuh iza Trini when yuh like Bacchanal...lol...

Answer 6

allnat, girl, no matter what going on or not going on in your life, we Trinis going to be talking about it.  Its like a baptism by fire.  and only after they have gossiped until they are blue int he face and realise that nothing not coming from it will they stop....stop talking about you that is....any hows.  you know the posse always here for you.  Take EVERYTHING you hear with a grain of salt, and try your best to not let them get you down too much.  there is really no stopping it.

much love, muah

Answer 7

People usually pelt stones at ripe mangoes, by that I mean if u and your family wasn't important, nobody woulda bother with allyuh. So tell meh nah, how does it feel to be important in T&T?? Hope yuh hang in there.

Answer 8

WELCOME TO TRINBAGO 'red!!!

Girl that is one of the main aspects of Trinbago life. Gossip!! Loooosh 'red that is pressure, but what we go do? If we ain't gossip wha we go talk about when we drinking?

I ain't know what to tell yuh but from poor society, rich society, and government - gossip rule!!!

'red hanging dey remember yuh ah Trinbagonian now....

Ah bet yuh didn't expect dat??!!  ;-)

Answer 9

Like TS said, welcome to T and T where gossip and maccoing are national pastimes.

Don't worry, it is usually not malicious and it never lasts. Take it all with a grain of salt gyul.

Now you are a true, true Trini!

Answer 10

dread is wen yuh show dem it affectin yuh dey go keep dey dotishness up.

Yuh have to get ah thick skin now start to show dem yuh give ah fryin cat bout dey dutty ar$e. AH does always say eh is 2 tings dat does float... Sh it and cream yuh have to choose de one yuh want to be.

So rise above all sista.... iz sumting good yuh have goin daz why dey focus on yuh. Stand tall