He slapped me around!?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs and 2 months so far. we have been loving and deeply loved before all these things happened. We met while I was a freshman in high school, and we fell in love. My parents have always been rejective to our relationship, and I thought they didn't know that we have still been dating after I lied to them 4 yrs ago, but they know all the time. I now go to a college where is near his place, and during this year of being closely together, I gradually lost the love for him, and realized that he is not "the ONE" for me. I wanna break up with him several times, but they all ended up being diasters in my life. He said all the f*** words and w**** words to me, took me out and left me by highways, slapped me around, forced me to have s** with him...He have turned into someone that I completely can't trust and talk to anymore. Please help me!

Answer 1

If you can't tell him, write to him and be mean.

Answer 2

ok. this is called abuse. this guy is an endagerment to your life and you need to get out now. call the police on him. get help from family, friends, anyone you know! whatever it takes you have to get away from this guy. he could kill you. i hope you understand that. it would not take much from the sounds of it- he could hit you the wrong way and you could die. this is serious, please take my advice and get away from him. don't wait until he hits you again...get a restraining order on him, anything! just be smart and be safe, please. go to the police. tell them your situation. they will help you. god bless and good luck.  

Answer 3

It sounds like you should tell a trusted adult is there a teacher you trust that you can tell this too because it seems the me this guy is not worth your time  

Answer 4

call the cops

Answer 5

You must report him...and head for the hills! Stay as far away from him as possible.

Answer 6

You have to report this to the police, people wouldn't´t want you ending up sick and mentally damaged because of the creep! Quickly write a note and stick it to his door that its over. If he still ignores it you will have to get a protection order where he has to stay away from you for at least don't know how many meters but just we want you safe. CALL THE POLICE.

Answer 7

Leave him a breakup note. And just leave. Don't look back.

No girl should ever have to be in an abusive relationship. Be strong and get out while you can.

Answer 8

Well I sugeest you get an court order to have him to stay away from you.And do you know that is rape when he forces you to have s*x with him.First get the court order,then tell him that you'll through,over the phone.And I suggest you never be alone anywhere with this guy.Never go out alone.If you see him call the cops.Honey You Need To Stand Up To This Guy.Or you going to be a punching bag.There no talking to him,So get the law on your side

Answer 9

Oh sweetheart, please just get your things and go back to your parents, or to a friends. You don't love this guy, and he cant love you or else he wouldnt do these things to hurt you! You have to be so strong here... What he is doing is illegal (forcing you to have s*x with him). You have to go to the people that love you! I know it seems like the right thing to do splitting up with him face to face but if it ends up in  a massive violent row, i would just go and i think he'll be able to figure it out for himself! You deserve so much better. Now pack your things today and leave this idiot! I wish you the best of luck! x*x

Answer 10

Report him, he sounds like a monster!

Answer 11

You are not born to be unhappy..leave him. Ask for HIS guidance.

Answer 12

u need to stay away before he hurts u  

Answer 13

He's acting like an animal, a monster, a rapist.

Call the police and place a restraining order on him. Be prepared to call 911 if he violates it. He knows what he's done is way wrong, you don't need to explain yourself, respond to him, speak to him, or even look at him.

Talk to your parents, the discomfort of admitting the facts to them is worth the support and solidarity. Plus, you may need them in court one day.

Best wishes.

Answer 14

ok if he's forcing you to have s*x with him that's rape and in texas if you under 18 and he's over 18 it's concidered rape i don't matter if it's conceeded or not i have friend goin through that too and went through i freakin punched him in her face(only cause he well nvm) just break up with him over the phone if you think he'll get violent with you and if in person have a guy friend there to back you up if anything does happen i usually pull the line i know marshall arts so bring it on but um u can't do that cause if you wanted to u would have had to do it at the beging and if he messes with you get your knuckles and punch him in the temple of his head cause that will knock him smooth out!!!! or punch him in the neck that's another spot and his chest and where the sun don't shine lol

and if you afraid to do it call me up and i'll do it for you that's just sick

but i would say call the police but you'd need evidence or else your wasting you time if you don't have it!!!!! like pictures or notes like mean ones or bruises

Answer 15

Really i can't believe it  it can't be true no man do that i mean no human   however if it's true it's  you who  screwed up not him and try to contact me i 'll be there for you.

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unbelievable  

Answer 16

go file charges with the police and get an order of protection, if you don't do this don't cry to some one  to help you. Go  to the cops NOW! Get your parents involved  

Answer 17

get away from that crazy @ss asap

Answer 18

call the police...

Answer 19

just leave. cut off all contact with him. and move one. i know its hard, but you don't deserve to be treated like that. he isn't the one, you know he's not the one, and you are wasting your time, and allowing yourself to be abused by someone who is not worthy. leave.