He thinks were perfect, i dont agree!!?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now.

like 4 months.

he is totally in love with me i know.

he thinks we are amazingly perfect together!

and i think were Alright..

he talks about marriage and growing up together.

but I'm not sure if i already met the one guy for me.

I'm only 16. (so is he)

i do love him, alot

but sometimes he gets so annoying to me.

and then i get aggravated and he gets mad at me.

I went through so much pain to be with him. (very complicated story!)

I kind of want to be with him.. sometimes

do i stay with him and give him a chance?

to see if works because i do love him.

or leave him now because of my doubts?

so i don't waste my time..

Answer 1

you definately shouldn't just pick up and leave, you might be throwing away a very good opportunity. and yes a lot of guys who are serious in their relationship will start talking about marriage and being together forrever and all that stuff.. you sort of have to realize that its not exactly true. its fun to talk about that stuff..but honestly almost every guy will say that if they are really in love with you. what you have to do is think of your relationship as a learning experience. every guy that you go out with will give you more of a clear understanding of what you really want in a guy for when you are ready to get married. if you are having all these doubts, its not going to benefit either of you to keep them all bottled up inside. you have to speak to him about it and see if you guys can work something out. if you can't then, at that point, you will know if you are ready to leave him or not. but you can tell him thta you don't want to have all these intense thoughts in your head and that its going a little too fast. communication is key

Answer 2

Four months is not a very long time.  Keep up with him now, but if necessary tell him you're not ready to make any serious commitments at such a young age.  I had a boyfriend who was just as obsessive and I ended up not being able to take it anymore; I broke up with him and told him he needed to go get a life.

Answer 3

don't put all of your eggs in one basket.  You will probably have lots of boyfriends before you settle down and get married, after all you are only 16.  You both will grow and change as you mature, and its very possible that you will outgrow each other in time.  Enjoy the time you have with each other, but don't just settle because he thinks you guys are so perfect for one another.  There will probably many loves in both of your lives.

Answer 4

ok well he sounds like my ex i guess i broke up with him yesterday cause he started pissing me off about saying how he want to get married and how many kids he wants and where he wants to live and stuff and im only in gr 11 not even 16 yet so like i think he was moving to fast and i told him that and he didnt listen so i broke up with him yesterday but if u rreally like the guy ur with now dont break up with him just think could u see ur life with out him or with someone else just tink that and that will give you all the answers

hoped this helped

Answer 5

First of all, 4 months is not that long. But if you do care about him, and like him then you should give him a chance. But I think you should talk to him about how you feel.

Answer 6

imagine him with a different girl, how do u feel?  

Answer 7

stay with him. you are soooo lucky to have what you have. it will only get better. just give the thought a chance. you may never experience this again.

Answer 8

I think you should definitly give him a chance and stay with him. He seems t oreally like you. As long as there is nothign thta gets in the way likw one of you cheating or movign away then i dont see why not. Besides you said you have wnet to alot of trouble to be with him. so if i were you i would stay with him for sure.