He took his ex back and dumped me???

Question

Ok so my mom and her friend hooked me up with the friends son. We went out for a week and he kept telling everyone how much he liked me including my best friend. the joke with his mom and mine is that we would get married. well he broke up with me because he still had feelings for his ex. his family doesnt like her because she treats him really bad. shell slap him a ccross his face and laught ,get the cup and drink out but demand that he pour it for her and all this other stuff. he doesnt belive that she treats him like this....what do i do,......i really like him and want him back!!!

Answer 1

find your own man, he don't want you . Prevent getting hurt further

Answer 2

it was a week...get over it and move on...and don't team up with his family to get rid of her...he'll hate you for it

Answer 3

It was a week! Move on. It is silly for you to have developed THAT strong of feelings in such a short amount of time. And besides that, if he has a girlfriend that he loves, then you were, unfortunately, were just a rebound girl.  

Answer 4

we all have free will, to do what we want to do, and be with who we want to be with.don't commit or fall for someone who still has feelings for an ex, because this happens.he obviously doesn't see the abuse, or mind it.

Answer 5

It would be nice if we could pick who we want to fall in love with us but unfortunately we can't so we wait until Mr right comes along. Sounds like your friend likes controlling women just like some women like bad boys.

Answer 6

You can't do anything.

He dated you, but he loves her.

By the time he leaves her again you probably won't want him anyway.

Find someone who doesn't have drama in his life. It'll be awhile for him.

Answer 7

start treating him like a dog apparently he like abuse. But I would not go after such an idiot. If you do don't be surprised when he breaks your heart.

Answer 8

okay. something i've noticed is that when people are in love they tend to have their mind shrouded. this means they don't notice what they're doing. i personally would get past him because he's a jerk but if you still want him you have to get him a way to notice what she's doing. also if you wanted me to i can find a way to break them up easily yet subtle.

Answer 9

Try to stand at his position to look at this, we all don't know what is happen to him and his ex, they might have certain feeling along the year, the mutual experience they are having etc.

Just a week dating, I can understand your feeling, you really like him ALOT, but also feel unfair to you.

Open your heart to accept this facts and you will find another man just about to come in. Good Luck.  

Answer 10

I know exactly how you feel but unfortunately there is nothing you can do really. If you've told him how you felt, then you have to let it go and trust 2 things...he will make the right decision for himself and 2, that if he is really yours, he'll be back. Just be patient. If she treats him badly, he'll soon see it or she'll push him to the point where he can't and won't take it anymore. But most importantly, let him make his own decision...you can tell him how you feel, even talk to him - but don't try to persuade him one way or the other. He may resent you if you do. Give it time...