He wants to f*ck me??

Question

Well, I just recently got out of a year long relationship about 3 weeks ago. Needless to say, I think I am ready to date [not get in a relationship], but just date people again and have fun. Well, I went to a party with my best friend [it was her coworker Bryan's party]. And we all got pretty messed up. Well, I left for a while to go pick up another friend, but while I was gone Bryan told my best friend I was really hot and that he wants to f*ck me. So, of course she tells me. He just got out a long time relationship too, so he is just looking to have fun. Well, usually, I would say no, but for some reason, I am so tempted, and don't think badly of me, I've never had a one night stand or slept with random people. It just seems exciting to me. My best friend says I should. But I'm afraid it will make me look extremely trashy, even though I want to do it. I am going to another party of his with my best friend Friday. Should I? Or no?

Answer 1

You are right, it will make you trashy. But from the tone of your posting, I think you have already made up your mind to sleep with him. In that case, at least don't keep high expectations from him.

Answer 2

Hmmm, I don't really know what to say, darling. I'm torn between go for it and don't do it. I do get what you are saying about the exciting part, especially (and I don't think we can look at this delicious dilemma without including it)... in view of the broken relationship you just came out of. However, in my experience, when men say things like I want to do this or that (in the sack) or if I get my way with that girl, I'll blahblahblah her so hard she won't be able to walk the other day, they are really just fantasizing out loud. Their actual actions may not necessary match what is coming out of their mouths! So, just hang out with him a bit and see what he's made of and then make your decision. At least let him buy you dinner first.      

Answer 3

Some people may find it trashy, but I would think most people won't. Like you said, you've never had a one night stand or slept with random people, so why would one time hurt? You have spent a whole year to one guy, why not a have a little fun while your single?  

Answer 4

Well, it really is totally up to you if there is chemistry & you feel attracted to him then what's the big deal neither of you are in a relationship, if you have s*x with this guy it doesn't make you trashy, we all have s*x... so think about it and if you end up doing it you should not feel bad about it... do remember to use protection!

~Good Luck... it you decide that ur answer is yes then EnJoY!  

Answer 5

It's not trashy, just don't get in a habit of it all the time and use a condom and your all good.

If you just wanna fool around with him instead of a relationship, thats cool.

Answer 6

You do what ever you want and what ever you think is best for you its your life and we only live once so enjoy.don't worry about what other people say.

Answer 7

You can't expect other people to make a personal decision like this for you.  You just want to brag.

Answer 8

well i would say, if he seems like a nice guy and you are also in the same spot as he is with the whole breakup relashionship thing--go for it. you seem comfortable, so why not? use a condom and know your limits. haha, enjoyy (: