Heartbroken for 12 months WTF, im over feeling like this, help !?

Question

She ended our 5 year relationship for another guy : ( whatever it happends to everyone but its almost been a year and i still cant shake the agony.

iv tried everything, moved states to start a new life, sleeping with other ppl nothing seems to work.... is time the only cure ? i dont meen to sound like a bitxh but im over feeling like this.

Answer 1

Did You try to suicide ? lol jk

if u have moved to the states running away from her trying to forget that she exists then you have done the dumbest then i`ve ever seen but if it was for your personal life work, study etc,, then its ok

you seem like you can't get over her yet although you have slept with other ppl which means that u have ,anyway it's been a year like you said isnt that enough ? if it isnt then u are just illusioning all this stuff.its just that you miss here . did you get a chance to say goodbye ? maybe thats the problem

Answer 2

You are using your past hurt as a reason to be depressed.... Instead of facing the other things that you need to change or improve on, your brains focus on the break up because it is a convenient familiar resting place.

To stop the problem ADMIT and face the harder challenges that you need to tackle.  This action empowers you to grow and feel stronger.

We all have our "resting place"....   Each of us would rather ignore the things that are truly making us miserable, but eventually we learn to take control back.  You will be okay (c: