Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp!!! boy trouble?

Question

my friend is going out with a guy i totally h8, i want her 2 be happy, but he's a total jerk, w@ should i do!!

Answer 1

i've had this happen,

she didn't want to listen to me, so i just had to be as happy as i could for her, but when she got her heart broken, i was there for her. it's what a true friend would do.

but make sure you hate him for the right reasons.

because if you hate them going out because you like him....

that's noooo good.

Answer 2

Not much, she does not see what you see, and is dazedin love, let time take its toll. She will learn the hard way, and if u keep ppressingit she might get stubborn................

Answer 3

talk to your frend

tell her that your heaps happy for her

and that your not saying get rid of him

just tell her why you dont like him

and she may be able to set him straight

Answer 4

you can talk to her about it but its probably best to mind your own business because she might really like this boy and get mad at you for saying anything negative about him

Answer 5

they might grow out of each other?  

Answer 6

talk to her about why you don't like him and she will probably listen to you.

Answer 7

Let her find out that he's a jerk. If you push you thoughts on her and don't allow her to make her own decisions, you will be the one to blame when the relationship goes south.

Answer 8

shell eventually figure it out. just be there for her when it does

Answer 9

Let her learn for herself, if you try to stop her, you'll push her closer to him

Sorry

Luck

Answer 10

I really hate the way you've totally disregarded the english language here

Answer 11

Tell her, but be polite and open. "Girl, please tell me what you like about this guy!" Tell her you really don't think you're a fan of the guy, but that you want her to be happy and want to know what's going on inside her so you can be supportive. If she is open to discuss it, you can carefully go on to explain why you don't like him. Saying you 'totally hate him' might come off kind of harsh and aggressive, and you don't want to upset your friend or make her think you are jealous.

She may convince you he's alright, she may not, or you might convince her. Either way, see what happens. You can't make her break up with him, so if she doesn't want to, there are to options

- lose your friend

- try and be supportive.

'supportive' is a loose term. It doesn't mean you have to spend loads of time with the boyfriend, though it would show goodwill if you tried. (unless you KNOW you'll end up in a fight!) Just do what you would want your friend to do for you if she hated your boyfriend. :)

Good luck!