HelP! My son hates me!?

Question

My three year old son has turned awful! he is always using toilet humour, sticking out his tongue and spitting on me, telling me he hates me and wants me to go away, i find myself almost screaming at him sometimes because he TOTALLY ignores me!. I am a good mother and I always reprimand him when he does something wrong, I use a confident forceful tone and I get down on his level. Weve tried time out and he treats it as a joke, putting himself there when he cant get his own way, he grunts and yells at me and has so much anger inside and I dont know why?

His dad is in the army and is currently deployed O/S. He has done this allot and we have always been fine? Im finding it hard emotionally and physically and im scared I will resent my son.

No judgements please, just genuine suggestions, really not in the mood for narrow mindedness today!!!

Answer 1

While his father is gone you have to be the stronger disciplinary. Boys will take a mile if you give them a inch. Redirecting his energy towards sports is a great idea it lets him know that you both are on the same team, and by working together you both will win. This way he will be more willing to work with you instead of against you. Correction is also important anytime he tells you he hates you tell him in a stern voice that you love him and remind him many times a day that you love him and eventually he will come around.

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

i love my son with all my heart and spiol him rotten. he started acting up and grunting at me and his mother too. we did the time out thing and trying to explian to him stuff also. finally a religous freak buddy that i work with read me a line from the bible that read "spare the rod and spiol the child". i do not believe in beating a child but a simple slap on the butt to get my sons attention worked. i am really sorry if this offends you because it did me too at first. now all i have to do when he is acting up is ask him " do you want to get in trouble" . most of the time that is all it takes and he straightens right up. thank god because i do not ever want to slap his butt agian. the simple reminder is good enough for him. i hope this helps . if not there is always parenting classes or counseling.

Answer 3

As a 16 year old I'm not into parenting (I'm one of those virgin ones who waits until he marrys) But i can suggest talking sense to him. When you talk to him don't hold back. Do what ever measures necessary to control him even take away his stuff until he controls himself. DO NOT HARM your child in anyway not even spanking. If his behavior continues call child service or a family therapy

Answer 4

Sit him down and just talk to him.

Don't let him get away from you.

Hurry up, and try to stop this or it'll just get worse.

It's normal for a person of his age to be doing this.

But you need to put down some ground rules.

If all fails, take something special to him, away.

Then say if he is good, you'll give it back,

Bribery.

Answer 5

spank his little *** take away all his toys and next time he spits slap his mouth.

Answer 6

That's what spankings are for.

Answer 7

You have to enforce some type of discipline and not worry about trying to be his friend but try to be his parent,try taking toys away and letting him earn them back also try time outs which will help him understand that what he's doing is wrong.