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Question

I am really pissed well not pissed but a little irriatated. I spent the night a my ex house last night and this morning of course i had to change my tampon. I put it in the garbage and tied the bag and then put it in the big garbage in the kitchen and told him to make sure he empty the garbage before he goes to work because i had a soiled tampon in there and i didn't want an accident to happen to where someone knock the can over and just so happen step on the with my tampon in it and his two guy friends see it.

Long story short, he didn't take the garbage out. I said i hope your friend don't see my tampon in the trash. He said don't worry about they seen someone on their period before. I was like that beside the point and i understand they have seen women on their cycle but that doesn't mean they have to know im on mine. He was like you are grown so don't worry about that kind of stuff. I told him i not worried i just think that is nasty for them to have to see my stuff and it does bother me because it a way it makes me look careless if they saw. He said i was taking overboard and i told him he's not a woman so he wouldn't understand where i was coming from.

my point was that it would have been different if he stayed by himself but he stays with two other guys. Why would i want them to see my tampon. I would dare want a man that not my boyfriend to see that kind of stuff. Even though i know its natural. I just feel like that not to be advertised. Am i right or wrong. If i took it overboard let me know and why.

Answer 1

he should have thought about ur feelings more in this situation xx

Answer 2

its fine, every girl goes through it.

so what if he didn't take the garbage out?

its nothing to be ashamed of, you shouldn't be embarrassed by this, like you said its perfectly natural, so dont give it a second thought, just move on.

Answer 3

You are irritated over this? Why should he take out the garbage because of what you put in it. You make it like these guys look for this type of stuff. Who cares what's in the trash. If it gets knocked over so what it will be cleaned up. No one is going to look to see what they are cleaning up. And so what if they see it. We women are going to have aunt flow no matter where we are. We are still going to need to get rid of our trash.  I'm sorry but I think that you are going overboard on this.

Answer 4

shut up.

Answer 5

It's O.K it is just a part of life I personally think you are over reacting

Answer 6

why were you making such a big issue out of it in the first place?  You must be quite young.  You'll be embarrassed about this when you're older.

Answer 7

It's his garbage.  He doesn't have to take it out because you told him to on the off chance that someone should hypothetically knock the can over and hypothetically the tied bag containing the tampon should manage to open or land in a way that makes it obvious to all and sundry that there is a used tampon inside it.  If his roommates aren't bothered seeing a tampon in there, why are you getting so stressed?  Surely if it was going to be that big of a deal you should have taken the garbage out as you left?

Answer 8

My feelings--that is part of life.  If the other guys make a big deal out of it--so be it.  Every gal they have ever seen or dated have this problem. Wrap it in Tissue paper--something--anything--life happens.  Don't fret over it.  Good Luck  

Answer 9

I agree with you, it's good to have privacy in that subject... I wouldn't want people to see that, also they might think "gross this person has used tampons around her house"