Helllpp embarrasing situation?

Question

ok so my friend was really upset cos she had her period for 10 days and we were talking about it. and then a guy from school came over and he looked confused. he said what are u guys talkng about. so we thought he didint no. yesterday he told me what we were talking about and he had this big smile on his face. im worried he will tell all his mates. and then when i was telling my friend he knew she was saying oh well they talk about worse things than periods and we turn around and he is walking behind us.

blushing much

should i tell him we dont want personal info blabbed around the skool or should i not tell him cos then he will do it if he knew it annoyed me

Answer 1

I would think that this guy would have better things to talk about than somebody's period to his friends.  I wouldn't worry too much about it.  He probably would embarrass himself talking about it if he were to bring it up to somebody else.

Answer 2

thats not even embarrasing. every girl gets her period, its normal.  

Answer 3

I guess it depends if he's a friend or not. If he is a freind you could simply tell him that you trust him not to be a jerk and tell everyone your private convo that he shouldn't have even been listening to in the first place or you can just trust him not to anyway and not say anything.

If he's just some guy then you still have the same options only i doubt he will care either way. But the truth is periods are no big deal and every female has them. He can say whatever he wants but whoop di do. It's not going to be an issue as long as you don't let it be. If he realizes it's getting you all upset then he might have fun with it. Just ignore him. Act like it's no big deal or make him feel weird for talking about it so much.  

Answer 4

He's an idiot.  Don't mention it or he'll only know that it really bothers you.  Let it go.  Even if he does blab.  Look forward to the day when guys are more mature than this and can handle girls period talk with no big deal.  

Answer 5

just ignore him.

Answer 6

Wow. I bet you're embarrassed when you have to buy pads from a male cashier, too, eh?

He's a male, you're a female. He knows what periods are, and you have them. Monthly.

It's life. Get over it.

Answer 7

dont let him knowing bother you and if he tells his friends so what all girls have periods its nothing to be ashamed about boys know about them anyways whether they hear you talking about it or not

Answer 8

ehh no worrries im 12 and well the guys so tampons in my backpack i really do not care alll girls get it

Answer 9

Don't tell him anything.  So what he knows about your friends period and he might tell his friends.  A period is just a ticket that allows you to have children, is not that how he came along??  Is not that how we all started, from that 12 year old girls first period??  A period is a good thing that symbolizes the potential of a new life to come.  

Answer 10

well, dont tell him in a whining tone. if you do, then, he will definitely tell all his friends. tell him in a very mature tone. maybe act like it doesnt bother you that much. he'll see that it will have no effect on you and wont bother telling his friends something stupid. good luck!