Hello, I really need help. Can you give me some advice?

Question

First of all im 17 and going into 11th grade.

Ok, me and this girl used to be best friends.

She turned out to be a 2 faced *****. I kept giving her chances. chance after chance after chance. Finally me and 2 other really good friends got SO sick of it. We stopped hanging out with her.

We thought all th drama was through.

But then, rumors started that the 2 friends and I are having s*x with our boyfriends. Which is true for 2 people.

Should we deny it?

and what should I do about this year!?

she wont leave us alone!

why wont she leave us alone!?

Please help, im really frustrated!!!

thanks so much

Answer 1

Do what you think is right, even when it hurts.  

Answer 2

I think you should tell her how you feel! I do I think they are just Jealous of you! It will all work out fine!  

Answer 3

When someone asks about it, laugh about it and make her look dumb with something like, "Wow, I guess she can't get over me. Poor thing." And if she says something else tell her, "Please stop making me the center of your world. I don't want to be that important to you."

Answer 4

Well, she's a two faced beyotch so she won't leave you alone but you can at least look way better than her not only physically but intellectually and emotionally.  I wouldn't deny or confirm get where I'm coming from just be cool and mysterious and you'll come out on top, (so to speak)!

Answer 5

first of all, deny, deny, deny.

1) you dont need the reputation

2) it is none of anyone elses business

3) it make HER look bad for making up rumours (no one knows if it is really true)

Since, all my plans to try to "get back" at evil friends have never worked and resulted in WAY worse drama, I suggest, ignore her behaviour this will bore her and make YOU look mature and a good person.

If people ask if the rumours she spreads are true, simply roll your eyes, say no, and say that she just wants the attention, then act as if you could care less. confidence is key! it will drive her CRAZY! she wants you to react.

Its gonna suck for a while, but eventually she will move on with her pathetic life.  

Answer 6

If the "rumor" is partly true, then you can say that it's no-body's business, if you'd rather not answer that question.  This fake friend wants attention, so totally ignore her.  In time, she'll give up.  Having 2 good friends is wonderful.  This fake friend probably doesn't have any friends!  Like the saying goes, "If you want a friend, be a friend."

Answer 7

catch her in the bathroom and teach her a lesson she wont soon forget

Answer 8

I would ignore everything cause it will tick her off more than any response. That way you basically send the message that her gossip is ridiculous and you are not worried about it.

Answer 9

You need to prove to everyone your better then whatever she said you were. Don't fire with fire.

Set everyone straight. Your not what they think you are.

What she said you are.

If its because of the way your acting, then

fix it!

Hope it helps....

Answer 10

Read "Mean Girls" by Haley DiMarco and some of her other books.  I saw her in person once at a conference and her best advice on bullying is to turn it into humor.  "Yes, we're all having s*x with our boyfriends and we're getting married next Monday in a group ceremony. Wanna come?"  

Whether having s*x with a high school boyfriend is a good idea is another matter, but it's no fun being the target of mean gossip.

Answer 11

Don't hang out with her and stay as far away as possible

Answer 12

clear your name and ignore her

Answer 13

Change schools.

Answer 14

IGNORE ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING