Hello,im 51 g*y male looking for an answer to a present problem.about 2yrs ago i saw a younger good looking ?

Question

guy at his workplace.since then i always think about him and always stare at him.every time i try to make eye contact with him he looks away. one time i thought he was checking me out but was not sure. 2weeks ago i broke the ice with a little chit chat. he seemed very friendly but shy.anyway next time i saw him he payed no attention to me.my question is,does this mean he has no interest in me. should i keep trying or just let it go? thanks always kb

Answer 1

I wouldn't give up, he just may find it awkward.

Answer 2

Now it's your turn to ignore him...if he's interested, it's his turn to interest you...  Personally, he sounds way too young and immature to be of much interest to you...and, way too much work for negligible payback...

Answer 3

You may want to "give him a clue" that you're g*y. Some innocuous but clear clue (a rainbow piece of jewelry or watch or perhaps a baseball cap with the Human Rights Campaign symbol on it). If he still ignores you or treats you no differently than the next customer, he's either not interested or not g*y. Sustained eye contact is one of the most telling giveaways regarding two people being interested in one another. If he's avoiding your gaze, that's not encouraging.

Good luck.

p.s.-I'm 45 and I've NEVER been really good at reading signals and I think my gaydar is broken or needs to be recalibrated.

Answer 4

yeah...... i don't think he is interested in you,

i mean, if there is no signs like a smile or eye contact than yeah he probably doesn't want anything with you. plus you guys already talked before and he still doesn't show any interest.

Answer 5

Two years ago??? Geesh, bet you think strippers really like you for your personality, too.

I'm practically in the same age bracket. I chat with a lot of people, some areyoung, some are cute, some are male, some are female, some I may be hitting on, some maybe not. But if in two years I hadn't progressed from awkward longing glances to a phone number, dating, or even becoming exes, I'd give up.

Let it go and move on. Sounds like he's in the customer service industry: they are supposed to make eye contact and be polite.  

Answer 6

dont sound Interested to me, Case your line back in the Sea and snag a new Fish  

Answer 7

I'd try not to be too over enthusiastic as that can come across as being desperate as I am sure you well know, he may not even fancy you but if that is the case just try and befriend him let him know that you are not one of these people that just wants to jump his bones and then leave him high and dry (which I'm sure you aren't anyway). Good luck whatever the outcome