Hello I am trying to fine my daughter Kimberly she lives in oklahoma city oklahoma I gave her up for opend ado

Question

hello I gave her up for opnend adoption please help me find her so I can see her I have cancer

Answer 1

You're just getting married and you have cancer and you want to find your given up birth daughter....Wow you have got quite the life...And you are throwing a Block Party!  

You need to locate the agency that helped you adopt her out to find the parents who now have her.  Check here to see if she is looking for you.  If you know her name now you can look for her on myspace or facebook.  

http://youadopted.com/index.php

Answer 2

Did you use a lawyer or an agency - go through them.  Prepare yourself for the idea that she may want nothing to do with you...

Answer 3

If you gave her up for an open adoption, you should already know where she is. And if you don't, all you should have to do is contact the lawyer you went through and they should be able to contact the adoptive parents for you.

And you also must think about her age when you will be meeting her because meeting your birth mother at the age of 10 or 15, then abruptly losing her all over again, could be extremely traumatizing.

I wish you the best of luck and hope you find a way to resolve this...

Answer 4

I'm soooooooooooooo sorry u will have to get the cops because they will know where she is i hope you get better

Answer 5

if its an open adoption y  arent you in contact with the parents?