Help, I need relationship advice?

Question

Hi, I currently live with my boyfriend of 2 years. We just had a daughter together, she is 6 weeks old. We had been fighting a lot lately and things have even gotten physical. But since then, things have gotten better and he says he wouldnt be like that anymore. I had a wonderful boyfriend of over 2 years before this one, i acutally broke up with him for my current boyfriend, and just jumped right into another relationship. I am still very in love with my ex-boyfriend who wants to be with me and my daughter and he is still in love with me too, the only problem is he lives an hour away!! what should i do?

Answer 1

Just a question if you were in love with this other guy why did you leave him in the first place?

You should be with the one you love.  Life is too short to be miserable and to let your daugther see that as well.  

Answer 2

This is a tough call.  Get some counseling-try to give your baby's dad another shot.  There must have been a reason you fell for him in the first place.  If it still doesn't work, and you still want to get back with the ex, make a clean break.  It sounds like you can still make it work with the ex-boyfriend as he loves you very much-plus an hour away is nothing in this day and age.

Answer 3

Well i think that you should leave your current boyfriend because when things get physical its a real problem. It shows you hes not afraid to hurt you and even though he says that it won't happen again what if you get in a fight like that again. Your ex clearly loves you very much cause he wants to help you with your daughter. If you are in love with him too then you should get together. About the living an hour away thing..I'm not sure what you should do. If you are willing to move than move..maybe he will move to you.

Answer 4

the grass isnt always greener on the other side is it?

Answer 5

Personally, if something gets physical once I'd be out of there. Yes, even though I have a child I'd pack her up and leave. Even if he never touches you again (which is totally possible) what about your child? Especially if you don't love him... contrary to popular belief, it is not best for the child if you stay with her father if you dislike each other. It's best for her if you're in a stable, loving relationship whether that's with your ex or with someone else you'll meet down the road.

Answer 6

i think b4 u do something u need to think it out, cuz if u broke up with one of ur boyfriends and ur with ur current bf and u had a daughter and now u want to go back with ur ex bf..yeah u really need to think if u go back to ur ex bf will the same thing happen again? and wut will ur current bf think?

Answer 7

Go to your love.

i don't get the "an hour away" problem really...

Answer 8

Sounds like you need a reality check.

It isn't about you anymore, take some time to think about what is in the best interest of your child. It isn't the child's fault you jumped into a relationship when you weren't ready. As for your current BF he doesn't sound like a winner either. You need to think what is best for you both (you and your child) abuse isn't going to get better.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 9

Stay with your boyfriend. You have a child. Whatever you choose, do it quick as to avoid confusion of the father of your child.

Answer 10

Only you can decide, maybe it'd be best to be single for a while and concentrate on you and your daughter, not good to jump from relationship to relationship.

ANd then you can learn more about who you are, and what you want...you seem to be a little unsure.