Help, fear of embrassment

Question

Ok, so I have this problem where I get extreme anxiety when I am with a guy I am attracted to and like a lot. Im afriad to go into public with him or really crowed places because im a afraid people will insult me infront of him. But the weird part is I have absolutely no fear to go into public places with friends or men that I am not attracted to, actually if I have not attracted to the person I want to go out to crowed places and have fun like bars, clubs, restaurants, take walks etc. But if im with a cute guy I don't wanna go anywhere because of my fear. I have been having this problem for about 2 yrs now. Is this normal, does anyone else of this problem. Please help me.

Answer 1

Kerry, it could be part of a social phobia.  Did something like this happen to you that triggered this fear?  This has to be interfering with your social life and relationships.  Please consider talking to a counselor about it.